I need some advice

[LittleBean]

Hello! I'm sure there are a lot of posts like this here, and I'm really sorry if I'm repeating myself, but I do need some advice and some recommendations on what to do.

Recently, I got into a situation where I fell into a headspace that was definitely in the little/pet part of my brain in an environment that was not very safe and made me feel very exposed. A part of me recognized that dynamic, but there's no way for me to explore it with the person it happened with.

So I'm in a bind. I have the tingles, I want to explore something, and I don't really have a person to do it with. The other thing is that I'm SUPER NEW, very scared, and I don't know how to navigate this space. Would it be better for me to try exploring it on my own before I do anything with another person?

I don't know any clubs or people who are in this space who would be able to help introduce me to it, and I'm scared that I'll do something wrong and upset people... so, help?

And also, a big, big thank you in advance for reading. 🙂

[lovingDaddy00]

I suggest make sure you get to know someone so you truly feel safe with them before you delve into your vulnerable space

[MisterPaternal]

Bean,

Talk to some people on here and see if you feel comfortable being youself with any of them. If so, consider explaining to the individual(s) in question what’s on your mind. You may get some helpful feedback that way.