PNW-GentleDaddy

I would have to say a good daddy or caregiver wants to participate in his or her role within the relationship and seeks to understand their partner intimately. There must be a desire for this, a fire cannot exist without the spark. If the CG gives feedback, listens and responds positively to your feedback, and seeks to please you and shows caring concern for, they are off to a good start. But tbh, I can't say much more than that, I think this would be essential for any relationship dynamic, so it must apply here too.

I don' think it sounds like you are being needy at all. And I am sus of the caregiver / daddy too. I wouldn't question yourself and your own needs, know them, define them, set boundaries, and communicate them to your cg. If they don't take you seriously I would reflect on what it is you really want from a relationship / and how you can move on / forward / If you want or need support, we are here for you. ! :)

That sucks no one has replied to you? What a jip! Hello! I am new to the community. I was just curious and had to read your post and reply!

I miss Cali, tbh I had a lot of great experiences there, and one heart break that had me leave the state for my own space. There will never be another calzone like the way this one shop made em, omfg . . . . sooooooo goood, and yea the people, friends, some college memories, swimming, exploring and camping, I was even homeless there for 2 years, It's kinda how I started my journey there lol, I spent idk trying to think, 4 years in cali, Northern - mid Cali to be specific, tell you what I don't want to sit in San Fran traffic ever again THATS FOR SURE ! lol oh man, some of my fav people I have shared memories with are from Cali. Tho I know most of them to be passed away now, helped build a shelter there in that one town, over 100 beds. Turned a run down church into a thriving shelter for the community. It is still up and running this day. My aunt lives there, but she is not well and when I went to visit well I ended up just leaving and toughing it out. I really really miss this one place, college overlook, I camped out there and walked to school, it was high up and could see the whole city, it was really really special, I miss that place.

I would have to image that the smell of clean new diapers brings back some memories and or emotions from being a child? I don't have those memories from that young but I do have the smells, I get wiffs when riding my bike or walking out here that from a childhood take me to a special place of security and positive feelings or memories, mostly around family or places out in nature, weird things like this smell of a toy store, the used trains had oil, and that oil has a particular smell, well I get that here and there in town and when I smell it oh man it takes me back to memories I can't actually remember. Like, I remember seeing the store and being in it but I can't exactly see it.

This is a great question,

what a shitty start to your day. I hate banks and money, takes two seconds for them to take it but two weeks for them to put it in my account. I know I am late but hey, why not cheer you up now? And as for the period, . . . I know that sucks, I may not have periods myself so I can't say much. Isn't there anything that will help? Like chicken noodle soup? Cartoons, Ice cream? My idea of fixing issues like this is with food lol or junk food. It's kinda how I always debt with shitty days too, call in sick from work cause yep fuck that shit, and I am gonna wear pjs around the house, and yep ice cream for breakfast 100%. Then come on the cartoons, fuck yes!

Hello, I just joined. Looks like a newer and smaller community. I like that personally. I get around too many people and my senses get a little overloaded with all the energy around me. I have always been quite sensitive. Especially to others' emotions.

This is a good question! And I too want to know more, would some of you littles here mind chiming in?

I would at least get familiar with yourself alone before stepping out or reaching out for someone to experience this with. I would also do a good bit of research on whatever the specifics are. It sounds like whatever it is, it makes you vulnerable enough to be a security issue, and that scares you. You NEED to know you CAN trust this person, whoever they are or become to be, but before you do you should know the playing field ahead of time. That way you can set clear boundaries so to not trigger anything traumatic. The trust part I must emphasize on, you need to know this person well and know they will not take advantage of you. I would say as long as you know these things, One , yourself and your boundaries, Two, the partner you play with, You are good to go, Go have fun, explore in a safe and fun environment that is private and secure. Or public, if that is your thing. :) Yourself should ALWAYS come first and you never intentionally put yourself in harms way, Ever! <3 No one is more important, or more of your responsibility than yourself. And I just preface this by stating this obvious, If you cant love or trust yourself, how can you ever love or trust another? wishing the best for you.

Like in what sense, good or bad? Like oh wow dreamy will never forget that person, amazing aura or whatever . . . Or like they did a terrible thing and everyone should know and no one should ever forget that! I would have to say prolly the most similar things irl, abuse, exploit, criminal, toxic, ? or in the other light, they were amazing, had such brilliance in energy, selfless and of service and reputation. But without knowing more of the context, I struggle diving deeper.

HAHA I know that store! I got my glowing POI there and all my other rave stuffs. Small world.