MisterPaternal

Everything you just said here should be mentioned to your partner. If he truly doesn’t have time to speak with you in person most days, then send him a text or email (whatever he’ll respond to) and ask that he carve out some time to meet with you to discuss some concerns you have with your dynamic. If he makes the time, lay out for him what you described above and explain why your concerns matter to him as well as to you. If he can’t or won’t make time for you, you may need to consider what’s truly important to you. Will you give him a specific period of time to try and meet with you? Or will the lack of a meeting be the final straw? I cannot and will not tell you how to handle your relationship with this person. All I can do is offer some basic advice as a neutral party. I hope you succeed in working this out.

I would be happy to discuss this with you. Feel free to send me a message any time.

You’re very welcome, tilly.

Cream: -“I’m So Glad” -“I Feel Free” Not-quite-raunchy Irish Rovers: -“Black Velvet Band” -“Star of the County Down” Most of these are on the raunchier side and may be better for middles than littles. Warrant: “Cherry Pie” Def Leppard: “Pour Some Sugar on Me” Robert Palmer: “Addicted to Love” Britney Spears: “…Baby One More Time”

As far as role playing - as opposed to wargaming style ttrpgs - Legend of the Five Rings (the old AEG material) is a really cool setting if you’re interested in more than hack-slash-loot. It has some excellent mechanics for courtly intrigue, personal honor, social standing, etc.

Ddlg should be an extension of your relationship/dynamic, not the core of it. If he can’t be the man you need and want, and you can’t be the woman he needs and wants, then it doesn’t matter how the relationship is packaged. A relationship is a two way street. I know it sounds obvious, but a lot of people overlook that part.

Just tell him. Don’t make it more complicated than it has to be. A good daddy will listen patiently and won’t judge you ahead of time.

Ooh. We should definitely talk. I look forward to hearing from you.

I’m trying to use the site, kitty. But people need time to respond. And some of them, as you correctly pointed out, have been away for a year or more. So it looks like we need to bring some activity back to this place.

If you’re still looking I’d be happy to talk with you about what you may or may not be looking for.

Well you certain have my attention. Feel free to send me a message and we can talk specifics.

I find that a lot of community sites tend to go through busy/quiet cycles, unless they have a very active and engaged staff.

Let’s talk if you’re still looking. And if not, you’re still welcome to talk to me.

You make a perfect pair. 🙂

If you still need this sort of structure you’re welcome to message me.

Feel free to drop me a message any time. You strike me as a reasonable, decent human.

Too many possible answers. Maybe the person sending the text… …changed his/her mind and didn’t have the courage to say it …physically lost the phone and no longer was able to text the other person …sent the text as some kind of dare or prank, without actually considering what impact it might have on the other person. I’m sure I could think of other possibilities, but these are the three that sprang to mind after reading your question.

If you’re still looking you’re welcome to send me a message. I suspect we might have a fair bit in common. I hope you have a happy 4th!

I am completely real. In fact, I came here because I was tired of app profiles that were rarely real people. I feel your pain.

You sound like a fun person to be around. Feel free to say hi any time.

In case you’re still looking, please feel free to reach out to me via DM. I think you would be a very good fit for my personality. I hope you have a happy 4th!

Here is a quick overview about me. Anything not listed below can be discussed privately. East Coast (NYC area) Male 39 Straight Dominant -usually paternal, but can adjust approach as needed (within reason) -naturally gravitate towards the Daddy role Cis sub females of all varieties are welcome to seek me out. Being a little or middle isn’t required. I tend to be adaptable and rarely give definitive answers unless I have a good handle on the situation. Please be somewhat articulate when you speak (no text speech, olease). Those who brat intentionally should look elsewhere. Unintentional brat behavior - such as from stress - should be brought to my attention in advance.

I just wanted to stop by and say a quick hello. I will not make this my life’s story. That’s what one-on-one time is for. I’m a straight, dominant male with a paternal approach to my interactions. I figured this would be a good place to meet new people. I will gladly chat with anyone who is at least 18 and is respectful, honest, and can comment in a remotely articulate manner. However, the majority of my attention will be for the females in search of a daddy figure. I look forward to meeting everyone!