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Hi! I hope you are all having a good day or night wherever you are located in the world . As the tittle may suggest Im looking for sub to call my own and that I can look after and care for , but please bear in mind that the dynamic will start online since i wouldnt want to jump on relocating and making big decisions. Before i start dwelling on what I'm looking for in my ideal little let me tell you a bit about myself . ☆I'm someone who considers himself open minded , a bit shy at first when meeting new people but once you get to know me and I open up I'm a completely different person . I'm a good listener and I try to be patient although that's not my big forte , though I'm trying my best to work on it . Another thing about me it's that I tend to be a very caring person to a fault at times but that's just me showing that i appreciate you being here with me , also I like giving advices to people and making sure that they are okay and doing okay although sometimes those advices don't apply to myself haha. I can be clingy at times which can be annoying for some people but how else will your day go without me annoying you and making sure that you are doing okay and feel loved right? ☆Moving on a few of my hobbies are reading , writing , gaming, listening to music , playing sport , traveling , going out in nature and exploring , I would also really like to try camping especially during winter and hiking also . I like watching animes also and if you like them also why not watch them together . My favorite type of music is rock and metal but I don't mind listening to other genres also aside from country that's just not my forte when it comes to music , a few games that I enjoy playing are league of legends , cod , assassin's Creed , god of war , far cry , Minecraft , Valorant and many others . Lately I've been trying to get into coding as well since I want to making coding a side hustle for myself but so far it's proving very very challenging. I enjoy outdoors and nature as well especially camping in a forest where it's you and the wilderness exploring and enjoying nature as it is , but at the moment due to work it would be a bit hard but in the future I'd like to do it and why not with my little. As for you, to go into a little further detail about me, these are the things I'd love in a potential sub: ☆I'd start by saying that the prefered age range would be between 23 and 35. Although if you are a bit older than myself that wouldn't be really a problem (i have a soft spot for older ladies) ☆I'd want someone to be loyal , obedient , has a good sense of humor , being a total goofball , communicative ,open minded , honest , kind , respectful and it's serious about the relationship. ☆I would like to have someone who is monogamous and not committed to someone else because I don't want to be torn between two people wanting each other that's just not something that I'd like. ☆I'm not a person who judges someone by how they look like but a preference of mine would be if you are on the thicker and curvy part . Even if you are not that doesn't mean it's an instant turn off for me or I won't talk to you , it's only a preference really. ☆Although the dynamic will be established I would like to say that I wouldn't just my little to be little all the time , I'd like for us to have deep conversations about different views that we share , joke around , flirt and not center everything we do around the dynamic . I would say it's more like a mix between the sub/dom and a normal relationship, of course the primary thing will be the ddlg part but I'd like to also have someone who I can communicate and have a good understanding with , share problems with but that doesn't mean dumping my stress or if I'm having a bad day or have worries on my partner and forgetting that they have a life and activities that they have to do as well. ☆Moving on I'd also like to say that a few of my kinks are ropes , bondage , light bdsm , breeding , cock warming , edging , teasing , orgasm control , orgasm denial , free use , rough fucking , impact play , and idk if this falls into a kink but a big turn on for me are big boobs and glasses .Lately I've exploring more on what other things I like or dislike but I'm open to try new things if my partner it's comfortable enough with it . I won't be pushing you to try new things if you are against it. ◇Some may wonder what will the relationship be like and to answer to that question the first would be lots of affection and love , time , communication ,commitment and I'll do my very best to be there for you making sure you have eaten , had your rest , drank water , done your assignments and making sure that everything it's going smoothly . By nature I'm a really caring person and a bit clingy at times so I'll be here for you no matter what . A system of rules followed by rewards and punishments and a safe place where you can be yourself and express your little side as much as you'd like . I'm a person that focus a lot on communication so talking and expressing what you feel is a must in order to get through tough times or creating more trust between us both . ◇Calling and video call will be a way to be us a bit more closer aside from texting and we will do activities such as gaming together or we can video call and I can watch you color something for me or I'll give different tasks throughout the day which you will complete and keep yourself busy or planning movie date nights . Although I'm willing to put 100% into the relationship I'm expecting for my little to do the same thing , don't get me wrong I'm not saying that you should distance from your life and what obligations you might have such as work or you go to university but making time for us and the relationship it's a must. ◇Thank you for bearing with me and my long post , hopefully I have been as clear as I could.
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Hello everyone! I would like to introduce myself as the title describes. I've been interested in the community and been dabbling in the pet play community in my local city. I'm wanting to make friends and perhaps find my little whatever feels natural. My hobbies include reading, writing, anime, manga, walking, hiking, painting, Yu-Gi-Oh, and video games. I'm happy to chat with anyone. If you have any question, feel free as I'm an open book. For now, I hope everyone is having a good day this week. Sincerely, LacusBear 🐻
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Hi, back again after being away for a while. I'm a very mature older man who is a dom daddy and also into bdsm and other kinks. But I am also very understanding and know that not all littles are the same and everyone is different and what may be good for some littles may not be what other little want. I'm very experienced and have been a daddy to others in the past and my daddy side has been aching for a little girl for a while but due to work and other commitments I was unable to fulfil that side of me. I'm seeking a young little who is into much older daddy's and is cute and soft. A very girly girl and feminine, sort of ying to my yang. Someone who just wants to be a little or a baby 24/7 preferably but not obligated and give all the responsibilities to her dad so she can be the carefree child she really is deep inside. I am very open minded and have to state I am a sexual daddy so would prefer a sexual little. I prefer littles who have real life daddy issues and may also be looking for a dad too. I can be quite kinky with the right little and I am also into littles who age regress and into ageplay too. Life has taught me nothing is too taboo or weird and all it takes is an open mind and an open heart. If you made it so far and liked what you read then message me and lets get to know one another. Speak to you soon xx
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Hi! I'm Bella and I'm a subby princess looking for a dom daddy. I live in NY, I'm 18, half Mexican half white, and 5'4. I love to play volleyball, read, cuddle, sleep, and listen to music. I'm looking for a long term irl or online ddlg relationship. I like a mix of nsfw and sfw stuff. Look at my profile for more info and msg me if u want!
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(28/M/UK)British lawyer and experienced daddy searching for his little
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Hello, I am a British Daddy , hoping to find a little to call my own. I have posted here a number of times before and I am still looking for the right person. -About me I will try and keep this part brief! I’m 28, and from the UK. I have my life in order, with a solid job and my own home. I currently practice law and work in a law firm. Outside of work I enjoy spending time with friends, playing sport, languages, gaming. I consider myself to be a laid back, and easy going person. I'm easy to talk to, so keeping the conversation going should never be a problem. -What I am looking for Not only will you be my little/submissive, you will also be my girlfriend. I value loyalty and trust above all else. For me, personality and the chemistry we have is more important than appearance. That being said, it’s still important that we both find each other attractive. I am open to long distance relationships, for the right person. I like traits such as clingy, or bratty. Want to bother me while I'm at work? No problem. Pick my tie for work? No problem. - Me as a Daddy I am a reliable and honest Daddy, who is strict when required. I have about 7 years experience with the dynamic and DD/lg. I love the feeling of being the person that the other person can rely on no matter what, and that person submitting to you. I am aware and respectful of the trust that involves. I want to help my little with decisions, responsibilities and any stresses they have. I like to give out rules, in order to help my little. What the rules are, will depend on what will help them. The same applies to punishments. To sum up, you will be my priority. - To conclude I’ve probably missed a lot of things out, so if you’d like to know more about me please do ask by dropping me a message here, even if it's just hi. I have the usual social media, so just ask if you want to add me on something. Thanks for reading this. I look forward to hearing from you. -
Hey there, my bubbly little sunshine 😊. I’m a 33-year-old Daddy Dom right here in Arkansas, searching for a wonderful female LG (18+) who’s excited to jump into a joyful DDLG world with me. If you’re all about blending innocent playtime with that special spark of care—think stuffies in one hand and Daddy’s guiding touch in the other—then pause and keep reading. I promise, I’ll make your days brighter and full of giggles. About Me: 6'2" snuggly powerlifter I’ve been embracing the DDLG lifestyle for years—mixing that warm, nurturing side with a gentle dominant touch that keeps things fun and structured. During the day, I’m the organized guy handling my routine; but when it’s our time, I’m your dedicated Daddy, creating rules that encourage and inspire, rewarding your sweet moments with lots of praise and little surprises. Love bringing stuffies into our play? We’ll include them in coloring sessions that turn into cozy, imaginative fun. I’m all about consent, open talks, and plenty of aftercare—hugging you tight after our playtime. Kink-friendly: ageplay, sensory games, and whatever brings out your happy side. What I’m Seeking: A cheerful, playful little who’s longing for Daddy’s guidance and loves a bit of whimsy. Based in or near Arkansas or willing to do LDR until we live near each other for later on? Great—let’s connect locally or start with fun chats online. You enjoy the delight of following along during our adventures, earning fun rewards for being my wonderful angel, or adding a touch of sparkle when you share your ideas. Sound like the happy story you’ve been wishing for? Pop into my messages with a glimpse of your little world—what’s your favorite stuffie, and why do you want a Daddy like me? Let’s outline some fun guidelines and create that magic. Can’t wait to welcome you, sweetie. 🧸✨
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New to the space, but not new to caring deeply, listening well, and knowing how to bring out someone’s sweetest (and sometimes sassiest) side. I’m a mix of soft-spoken comfort and firm direction, and I love the little things—routine check-ins, silly conversations, good girl praise, and quiet moments where you can just be you. I’m here hoping to build something real, playful, and mutually rewarding. I enjoy bonding over voice, messages, and yes—trading pics too, if the vibe is right. I think sharing that side can be fun, flirty, and a way to feel closer when done with trust and respect. 💬📸 If you’re cute, curious, or just craving a space to feel safe and wanted, don’t be shy. I don’t rush things, and I always lead with care. Let’s get to know each other—slow, sweet, and with a little spice.
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Heyo, My name is Kayden. I'm 27 and as the title states- I'm looking for my baby. I'm pretty laid back. More of a homebody but when I do get out I like to go to the movies and arcades- I enjoy finding new spots to have fun though. Nerdy- I like gaming- fortnite, league (aram and tft), A few small mmo's. Minecraft. Playing a lot of palworld lately. A good amount of single player story games too. Anime. Movies. I enjoy baking- Haven't in a while but i'd love to get back into it at some point. Listening to music often- I am while I write this actually lol. I'd like to find someone who enjoys some of the same things. I've been a part of the community for almost a decade. I believe in rules that benefit my little partner. Helping to add structure to their life. I want us to be best friends. I want them to know that i'll always have their back and they can come to me with anything- big or small. I actively encourage that. Its rewarding for me to know that i'm someone's safe place. I'm looking for something serious/long term. On that note I should share a few things that may be deal breakers for some. I don't want kids- i'd rather use the money on me and my partner- gifts, trips, goals, etc. I'm not religious. I like schmedibles- dont really smoke schweed but im not against it. I drink every now and then- Its usually socially- last time I had a drink was probably 5 months ago. I feel like thats enough of an intro- I know she's out there somewhere so i'm trying to take the necessary steps to find her. Feel free to message me if this caught your attention-
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My name is Anthony, I am a 39 year old daddy from California! I am new to this site but not new to the lifestyle or as a caregiver. I am an architect, I like to farm in the country or lie on the beach on the coast!! I love animals, have a few of my own and I am excited to meat your animals and or stuffies!! I love camping, off-roading and I love love traveling!! As the title suggests I love any adventure or finding the trail to one!! I am working on building my career and business’, fairly successfully, and I am quite capable of traveling to you or bringing you to me. I don’t mind long distance situationships, as long as the understood goal is meeting in person someday. I am single, available and ready to find my little princess to spoil! You should have an adventurous spirit, even if you’re shy and nervous. You should be ready for some rules, but know that I’m not a tyrant!! I have no desire to control more of your life than what you need from me. I look forward to meeting you and learning all about you, so please don’t hesitate to reach out and say hi! 🙂
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Experienced EastCoast Daddy/Dom in search of Babygirl to Guide & Protect
Guest posted a topic in Personals
Hey y'all call me Rye, Daddy/soft Dom/pleasure Dom with 10+ years of experience, I've got plenty of experience with this dynamic and so im more than happy to guide you through your journey into bdsm and ddlg if your new! I'm a softer Dom outside of the bedroom, I love taking care of, babying, cuddling, and doing everything I can to make you happy and comfortable as a daddy! Inside the bedroom I'm extremely kinky, and love to make my partners pleasure my goal. I am 6ft2, chubby dad bod with a beard, Brown eyes, brown hair, still emo at heart but no longer dress like it lol My hobbies are Gaming (mostly Xbox & PC), anime/manga, hiking/exploring nature, music, doom scrolling when I can't sleep. I'm looking for a feminine little, one that likes to cuddle, color pictures for her daddy, and loves head pats and back rubs and quality time. I WANT kids, and honestly I'd like them in the near future, I have a few kinks that would lead to them anyways, but Ive always wanted kids and I'd like my partner to want them too. I'm ok with diapers if that's something you want, I'll even change them as long as #2 is understood as a no go for me. I want a real relationship that isn't entirely based on sex, that being said I am extremely kinky in bed, and a pleasure Dom in the bedroom so sex is a part of any dynamic I have, it's just not the main focus. I'm more than ok with LDR or someone who cant Travel often, as long as in person is understood as the objective! Don't be afraid to message me if your a bit older than my listed age range, or if you have kids/ are a single mom, everyone deserves love! My age ranges are 18-32 I can't wait to hear from you all 🙂 -
I’m new to this site and am in the need to look for the perfect sub for me to train and take care of. Would like to do cute things and an open mind. Love to talk and chill and I have daddy experience. I’m located in the Bronx NYC and would like to look for locals. Please feel free to share with anyone you may think is valid thank you .
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About me Hey there, I'm Maarten, a 25 years old male from the Netherlands. I work as customer success manager and spend my free time by going to the gym, boxing, playing guitar or working on creative projects like music production and 3D art or animation. Some of my other interests include psychology, self-development and AI. For those familiar with the Myers-Briggs personality test, I'm an INFJ. I'm a loving and caring person. I believe that's why being a Daddy comes naturally to me. I also have a dominant side and like to be strict or even rough. What I'm looking for - A 18-25 year old girl - Strictly monogamous - A submissive - Someone who is serious about the lifestyle - Someone who is communicative and honest - Someone who is sexual and kinky - Pysically attractive (to me): I prefer someone who is in good shape Thank you for reading! If my post resonates with you, I'd love to hear from you!
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I am looking for a girl to provide for. I am old fashion and just out of a ddlg 3 yr relationship but she wanted 24/7 and I have a kid and life, so a lot of the times we just can't be childish but once everything has settled for the night and the kid is in bed, sure perfect time to let my middle be her true self. Ther are a lot of times if done right can still be a middle most of time just have to be sneaky about it.... I want a girls that her real age is 25+ im tired of the younger breaking my heart because they havnt figured out what they truly want in life. Will provide for younger if you 100% know what you want in life. A good princess will want to always please daddy and will love wearing dresses with stockings daily as not many times you should be in pants. I have a good job and willing to provide for the right girl. Do you're "housewife chores" daily and enjoy a life of only working if you really want to not cause you have it as ill gladly pay the bills and your wants while you care for our home, help with my son/care for our kids, and care for me and my needs. If this sounds like a life you want, if you local to Sumter, SC that would be perfect, if not local be willing to spend time on video calls to learn each other then be willing to move here to me.
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Hello, my name is Lilù and its nice to meet you all. Just looking for friends and stuffs who are also into the same things I am. Message if you wanna be friends.
