How to be less needy for Daddy

[BBGIRLSUB]

Hello, 

I am new to BDSM/DDLG, I’ve been in a LDR online ddlg dynamic for 4 months now. My Daddy and I use to talk everyday and made time for our dynamic together 2-3 times a week. 
recently my Daddy started at a new company and works 5 days a week 10 hr shifts. I have only talked to him a few times in the past month and he hasnt  made time for our dynamic.

i understand his life and career is very important and i want to support him and give him the space he is so clearly asking for. 
My feelings are a little hurt because i no longer feel like a priority to him but i want to be. 
any advice? 
I am a business owner myself, I have children, a part time job, I’m in school and have tons of hobbies yet I can’t stop stop thinking about him and what’s going on. 

[Pinkbabby]

I have been experiencing the same! 
I just try to keep myself busy and get everything I need done when I can so when my daddy is available I’m free. I also take lots of pictures for him so he doesn’t forget what i look like lol

it can be difficult to go without the same amount of attention as before but it doesn’t mean they are not still thinking about us 

[BBGIRLSUB]

How do you stop yourself from going crazy? I feel like I’m being neglected and he won’t talk to me about it. He said he would make time for me on his days off but it’s been weeks and he hasn’t made any time for me or this dynamic 

[Pinkbabby]

I wish I had an answer for not going crazy to use for myself 😅 I asked for a serious sit down and explained how I felt and it helped for me. I would suggest the same. Maybe ask for a specific time to have a serious talk. (Our dynamic might be very different from yours because once in a while, I am allowed almost a “get out of jail free card”where I can step out of our dynamic and be like “hey you’re slacking” 

[BBGIRLSUB]

My Daddy is doing his best but perhaps I’m too much idk. 

[Pinkbabby]

I don’t think you are! I think you are being completely valid 

[BBGIRLSUB]

Thank you. I’m trying to be patient with everything. 
thank you for your advice 

[Pinkbabby]

Of course! If it doesn’t work out we can always share mine 🤭

[BBGIRLSUB]

Hahaha I appreciate you! 
this is the first ddlg relationship I’ve had. We’ve created such an intimate connection, I can’t imagine calling anyone else daddy. 
obviously it will take time for me to heal and move on if that’s what it comes too. 
thanks again 

[Pinkbabby]

Of course! You can send me a dm whenever 

[softdaddydom]

From a Daddy's perspective.  If he's committed to the relationship, then he can and will find the time to message you!!!  I'm an older Daddy, late to the scene after having gotten married, have children, and also working... yet i could always find the time to message my littles, find time to spend at least a little time with them every day!  I find it perplexing that a Daddy would leave his little one hanging for days, unless something was very wrong! (I have done that, but only because I was post surgery and in pain, sleeping lots, and my little one was aware of it)  Otherwise, contact should be constant!  There is no such thing as being too needy!  You're a little!  You're supposed to be needy and clingy and want lots of your Daddy's attention! 🙂  I hope things work out for you, but don't get discouraged if things don't!  There is the right Daddy and/or little out there for everyone... you just have to be patient and keep looking till you find them! <hugs!!!>

[Unikitten23]

Oh my gosh I would honestly lose my mind. Also, why would someone agree to work 10 hours 5 days a week.  I hate to say this but honestly it sounds like well um the stereotypical type of thing someone does when they cheat. All of a sudden working long hours and breaking promises to spend time with you. I could very well be wrong though. Also, it just a gold standard for anyone in any type of romantic relationship that you shouldn't make your partner feel bad for wanting to talk to you or spend time with you. I mean if you are in a relationship you should want to talk to them. 

[Unikitten23]

My best suggestion is to sit him down for a nice good talk to clear the air. Also to make a list of questions on note cards that you want to ask him. Such as, are you no longer interested in having a relationship with me? (If it's a yes. Then maybe ask then why do you no longer make time for me anymore and how long are things going to remain like this?) If his answers seem flimsy or odd you can ask him straight out is there someone else? At the end of the day you need to prioritize yourself and your own needs. If he can't fulfill them then you are better off finding someone else who will fulfill your needs.