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Hello, 

I am new to BDSM/DDLG, I’ve been in a LDR online ddlg dynamic for 4 months now. My Daddy and I use to talk everyday and made time for our dynamic together 2-3 times a week. 
recently my Daddy started at a new company and works 5 days a week 10 hr shifts. I have only talked to him a few times in the past month and he hasnt  made time for our dynamic.

i understand his life and career is very important and i want to support him and give him the space he is so clearly asking for. 
My feelings are a little hurt because i no longer feel like a priority to him but i want to be. 
any advice? 
I am a business owner myself, I have children, a part time job, I’m in school and have tons of hobbies yet I can’t stop stop thinking about him and what’s going on. I feel like I’m being neglected and he won’t talk to me about it

  • 1 year later...
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Everything you just said here should be mentioned to your partner.

If he truly doesn’t have time to speak with you in person most days, then send him a text or email (whatever he’ll respond to) and ask that he carve out some time to meet with you to discuss some concerns you have with your dynamic. If he makes the time, lay out for him what you described above and explain why your concerns matter to him as well as to you.

If he can’t or won’t make time for you, you may need to consider what’s truly important to you. Will you give him a specific period of time to try and meet with you? Or will the lack of a meeting be the final straw?

I cannot and will not tell you how to handle your relationship with this person. All I can do is offer some basic advice as a neutral party.

I hope you succeed in working this out.

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