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4 hours ago, lovingDaddy00 said:

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2 hours ago, Daddy LF D said:

Don’t give up. I know it can be a bit disheartening sometimes, but you just need to give it time. You’ll find someone

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Don't give up on your own dreams, I know how you feel and I too wanna give up, maybe I had in fact given up like 10 years ago, but still I am here. I say I am not looking, but I am, just for the right person though is all. I think letting go of the attachment that I need to have someone helped me a lot. That I need to give to others before myself, that was unhealthy. Coming to know myself this way has helped me a lot. Understanding yourself by looking into others, and understanding others by looking into yourself. That was the lesson, because I would always get lost in them, lose my own sense of identity. Being an empath is really difficult. It has been for me at least, and till I learned that no matter what or who I love etc, I do come first for me. And with that, I can never give up on myself. I can give up on others, but not me. I think maybe that attitude that helped me immensely get thru the times where I just wanted to deflate, give up, self destruct, wither away.Β 

Look, there is light at the end of the tunnel. Any tunnel, your choice, its your choice how long you stay in it too, or if you prefer, realize the truth. You need no one but yourself right now. Once you see this internally, and put everyone else to the back seat, you will realize the connection. How can you want another when you don't even want yourself? That was my issue . . . Not saying it's yours, but I wanted to share in case my story could help you, maybe a perspective or attitude could rub off on ya and you can incorporate it, call it a fuck the world kinda attitude or whatever you wanna call it. :)Β 

You come first. You dont need anyone, but I get the sense of longing and wanting. Just don't want soo much, and don't give up. Hard headed runs head first into the wall, wall breaks, not the other way around silly :PΒ 

hugs with love and empathy, compassion, and understanding, that you will be okay, though I get the loneliness. That will pass once you put yourself first. :) <3

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