[36 M] Washington Daddy, looking for my sweet and needy little (or middle) girl

[JakkTheArbitraryHeretic]

What to say about me?

I consider myself to be incredibly whimsical, the world needs more whimsy, and I strive to be a force of positive energy (even if it's only in how I speak to people on a regular basis.)

Like everyone, I have flaws, but I also know, that flaws by themselves are not something to be looked down upon. It's how we handle said flaws that determines who we are.

I naturally gravitate towards the caregiver role, simply because I have so much love and care to give (that I only feel comfortable giving to ONE person at a time, which is why monogamy is so important to me.), as well as an urge to guide, protect, and nurture my future partner and her happiness.

I'm looking for a little girl or a middle girl who only wants the same things I want out of a relationship:
Love, Communication, Honesty, Loyalty, Commitment, Intimacy (both wholesome and lewd, and everything in between), Patience, Understanding, Trust, and Whimsy (Don't worry, if you can't provide whimsy, I'll teach you how, and give you all the positive energy that's required even more so these days.)

Wholesome activities I'd enjoy being able to do with my little/middle once I've found her are;

Playing Stardew Valley together. (Even as a Daddy Dom, I know that I need emotional comfort too, and Stardew Valley is my comfort game. There's just something about being able to both be chill and take things at my own pace, while also being able to challenge myself with personal goals that makes the game so much fun.)

Playing Palworld together. (If Stardew Valley is my COMFORT game, then Palworld is my addiction. I have lots of fun just exploring even already explored places and doing all sorts of shenanigans with my Glider and Grapple Hook)

Playing Kingdom Hearts while she watches. (And number one in my favorite game franchise is Kingdom Hearts, don't worry, I know it's confusing, I'll hold your hand and answer any questions you might have.)

Watching Cartoons/Anime together. (We can take turns each picking a series to watch, and then alternating between them, ooooor, if you'd rather, we can make a picker wheel and just add things to it, -removing things when we've finished and don't want to watch it again, or leaving things on to watch again if we want to.-)

Just talking about our days, cuddling, listening to music, celebrating each other and being glad that we finally found each other.

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As for less wholesome activities, these can be discussed in private once we're both comfortable and have established that we want to be together. What I will say though is I highly value consent, and no matter what level of kink we embrace, respect is always important and I will always make sure to show you plenty of respect. (And I would expect you to do the same.)

I'm also highly insatiable, (though due to the aforementioned loyalty, that will only be for the girl I form a relationship with.) I also tend to enjoy causing pleasure as much or more than receiving it, though I also tend to enjoy causing overstimulation in the best ways. I'm slightly sadistic and intense at times.
I firmly believe that after-care is one of the most important parts of intimacy. I also believe the same is true about 'during-care' and 'before-care'... though one could argue that 'before-care' is just foreplay.

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Alright, now for the potentially deal-breaker stuff.

I have a child from a previous relationship, that child is almost an adult, and lives mostly with the other parent in another state, my child comes to visit me for up to a couple months out of the year during the summers.
The reason I know this is a potential deal-breaker is because I don't want my future little/middle to feel like she's not the center of my world.
Because here's the thing, my child will eventually be an adult and have their own life, but the little/middle that I'm looking for, will be with me for the rest of my life. (At least ideally)

My health problems consist of Multiple-Sclerosis (manageable), ADHD (medicated), and Autism (though this one is less of a health problem and more of an undeniable factor of who I am.) I'm also legally blind in my left eye.

Because of my health problems I am unable to work, and I'm on a very limited income (SSI/Disability), and I can not travel or relocate.
However, on the plus side, I do have my own apartment, and I have tons of free-time that I can make sure you never feel neglected.

As for things that would be deal-breakers for me, I'm honestly a very simple kind of guy... just don't make me feel like I don't matter, don't cheat, don't berate me for things that are out of my control, don't be violent, and don't seek drama for the sake of drama. I can handle some bratty tendencies, but not the selfish kind.
Also, please understand, that I have put a lot of effort into writing this ad, please make sure that you are actually interested in everything that I've put forth in this ad, and that you're okay with the things I've mentioned that might be deal-breakers. I've been looking for a very long time, and every time I think I've found the right girl, it doesn't last and I have a temporary feeling of hopelessness... please make sure that you're truly ready to commit to a relationship. It's okay if things don't work out between us, but I really don't like being blindsided by things that could have been prevented or resolved early through communication. Make sure you message me your favorite type of cookie/sweet/snack when you message just so I know both a little bit more about you, as well as that I know you read the whole thing before replying, because that means you deserve a reward already.

I think that about wraps up my personals ad, and I truly wish everyone all the best luck in finding whatever it is that each person is looking for. The world may be a bad and scary place sometimes, but it hasn't always been, it won't always be, and we don't have to let the negativity of the world consume us. Good luck everyone, and I hope you all have the happiest lives that you can.