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Age: 23
Little Age: 5~13
Role: Little/Middle, submissive, ageplayer, faerie princess, brat
Location: northern Minnesota
Sexual Orientation: straight, demisexual
Looking for: Romantic Monogamous Daddy/Life Partner
Relationship requirement: monogamous
Status: single & happily waiting for the right person

Hiiiii 🧚🏽‍♀️

I'm 23 and from northern Minnesota! I'm active in the local in-real-life kink community, and seeking a Daddy who is happy to join me with the same goals & live up here with me ☺️ I am a whimsical soul whose creativity shows up in various mediums: upcycling, painting, writing, poetry, voice-acting, sewing, and embroidery. In addition, I am a kitchen experimentalist who plays with flavors & ingredients to make hit dishes for those dear to me.

Activities I enjoy: nordic skiing, hot tubs, hiking, kayaking, biking, camping, festivals, farmer's markets, ren faires, snuggling with my cat, hanging out with friends.

Littlespace-me likes the nature aesthetic, showing up in various ways: my cute yet woodland creature-patterns on clothes, or my collection of wild animal stuffies! When I'm smol, I also am often more silly & giggly, and feel less anxious. With a Daddy, I ageplay alot as well, especially when I feel love for him.

Ok! Onto the relationship & smexy stuff!

Kinkz!
ddlg, ageplay, shibari, spanking, manhandling, roleplay, degradation, sapiosexuality, biting, being a pillow princess.

Kinkz I want to explore more/learn . . .
suspension bondage, fireplay, choking, forest play, predator/prey, candle wax, whipping, tantra, psychedelic sensuality, sex magick

⚠️Hard Limits & Incompatibilities (please respect & heed these)⚠️
non-monogamy, threesomes, age 36+, long-distance, vasectomized, already having kids, not desiring kids in the long-term future, heavy 420, alcohol or substance use, diapers, watersports, anal, supporting Trump/being conservative, racism, homo/transphobia, cheating.

Physical attributez
Petite & healthy weight. Dark eyes & long wavy/curly thick hair. Big me: natural aesthetic or nordic styles, flannel, fleece or nature-print dresses, boho skirts & tops. Smol me: cute or spicy ddlg-style frills, sets, stockings, etc.

About YOU, my future Daddy . . . (please read)

  • Cannot stress enough. Please be 35 and younger. I will verify if we meet IRL. Don't waste our time lying.
  • MUST be willing to permanently move to northern MN if a relationship blooms! I am NOT leaving here.
  • Please don't make your entire personality about fitness/the gym/your muscles. I am more attracted to facial features, personality, and overall health than your 6-pack. Muscle-bragging actually is a turnoff & annoying to me.
  • Just take care of yourself. Not expecting perfection. Slightly overweight is ok. No unkempt hair. Good hygiene.
  • Soft dom/caregiver. AKA I like funishments. Spanking, fun punishments. The strict/cold dominance, the punishments such as revoked privileges, stern/cruel control, are a no-go. Strict routine discipline and cold dom vibes tap into my trauma. I like to be controlled when I want it, but outside spicy dynamic I value my autonomy. I am willing to dip my toes into master/slave or domestic dynamics but there is a likelihood I may not end up liking it.
  • Dark ageplay: willing to engage this kink. I tend to be smol in a relationship, and have many related fantasies.
  • Community-oriented. Willing to accompany me in the local kink munch scene. I have a whole network of nonsexual friendships there. I hope they can be your friends, too. (Again, nonsexual. We would be monogamous. We are there to learn/demo, exchange insights, make friends).
  • Be betwixt a homebody & hustler. Neither extreme I can handle. I want to go out and do things. Be active. Pursue hobbies and social outings. But I also need quiet moments, nervous-system resets too: cuddling, doing nothing, watching movies, existing.

You need to put in effort in this relationship. You are someone who wants to build a life with me as my future forever partner. Establish a family with me. Someone who takes dating with me slowly, because this is a major future we are talking about here. I take time to develop feelings and love for you. I take time to become your Little. I need that love, that organic connection developed. And this effort starts here. If you message me with a low-effort intro, you are not indicative of a serious dynamic.

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Posted

Hey, I read your whole post start to finish, and I’m going to be upfront instead of trying to sneak past anything.

I’m slightly outside the age range you listed.

I know that matters to you, and I respect why you put it there. You seem intentional about your life, your future, and the kind of dynamic you want to build, and that’s rare.

That said… I didn’t want to reduce this to just a number and miss the chance to at least introduce myself properly.

What stood out to me wasn’t just the dynamic you’re looking for, it was you. The creativity, the way you describe your world, the balance between independence and wanting to feel small and safe with the right person. The fact that you value community, nature, and actually building something real instead of rushing into intensity.

I’m naturally more of a calm, grounded presence. Protective without being suffocating, playful without being careless. I don’t do cold or controlling for the sake of it. I pay attention, I show up consistently, and I take connection seriously.

I’m not here to push past your boundaries or convince you to ignore them. But if you’re open to it, I’d like the chance to let you get to know me as a person first and see how it feels naturally.

If not, I genuinely respect your clarity and wish you the kind of connection you’re looking for.

But if you are a little curious… I’d enjoy talking with you.

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