LacusBear

Hello everyone! 🌑 I am a Nerdy Soft Dom Daddy and Owner who is looking for a little and or pet. I am a 31-year-old 6'5", bald, ginger goatee, dad bod, 250 lbs, nerdy, and health conscious. I am a military brat who lived around the world growing up since I was born in Illinois. I lived in Germany, New Mexico, Japan, South Carolina, England, and back near St. Louis before graduating High School in 2013. 🗺️ I'm an ambivert who leans more introvert. I have my moments when I want to get out of my shell and explore the outdoors or socialize with my nerdy peers. With that said, I am shy or nervous when first speaking, but if we have a hobby in common, I will be chatting non-stop without even noticing it. 🌒 For my hobbies, I have extensively put those on in my about me page. If you're interested with what you've read then hopping over to another page will be like putting a big piece to complete the puzzle. 🧩 🌓If you're here in the next phase, then you must like what I'm typing here. Here are some things I'm looking for in my Little | Pet and I'll put an explanation of each one: Age - I try to follow the age gap rule that is acceptable to society [Your age / 2 + 7] Which is around 22/23 years old. [I'll be adjusting the ages as I get older to be consistent] ⏲️ Physique - I am looking for someone who is petite and on the skinnier side. With me on a health path, I need influence in my life to encourage me to move forward with them. 🪞 Loyalty - I want to build a relationship that makes us both happy for us and those around friends and family. 👑 Honesty - I will be honest, I am a thick-headed guy, no hints, or flirting will get anything across to me. Just say what you want and I will be honest with you back. 🧐 Communication - I want to chat with you whenever you're free and will reply when I get the chance. [I also have a rule of three, if I send three messages and there isn't a reply; I don't message until they do. I give it a time limit of 2 weeks. If there isn't any communication, then I'm not important to you and I'll move on.] 📲 Respectful - I am willing to be your equal if you put in the same energy. Now since I've lived in different parts of the world, my values are completely different than a usual American. 🖼️ Funny - I laugh at my own jokes and love to be a goof ball, if you do as well, then let's be goofy together. 🤪 Open Minded - With me being a nerd and anime fan, just know that there are some weird things in the world and my humor is just as weird. 🥸 Distance - I am alright with a long distance relationship, but if you're in the Mid-west area, that would be big bonus points. 🛫 🌔 Wonderful! You've made it, good job, now on to the second last part. What I as a Soft Dom Daddy | Owner provides to you: Environment - I provide a space where no one can judge you for who you are; to be free and carefree with my presence. 🌇 Safety - Your wellbeing is top priority. I want to make sure you're feeling good about yourself mentally and physically. ⛑️ Listening - What you want to do, whichever you're talking about, and how you express yourself, I will pay attention with the best of my ability. 👂 Guidance - Assisting those in need, helping to get to a goal, and giving advice is something I want to provide to you. 🧭 Emotional Intelligence - I regulate my emotions, and try to be self-aware in those around me. 🖼️ Intentional discipline - Giving consistency of rules, expectations, routines to help you grow. I use teaching moments instead of punishments and use self regulation. 🦺 Patience - The saying goes: "Good things come to those who wait." It's something that I use a lot in my daily life and I try not to worry if I can't get it done quickly. We can only control what we control. 🎨 Seduction over force - In those intimate moments, I am gentle in guiding and making sure you're comfortable while keeping eye contact. Being present in the moment, letting you that I care than giving rough orders. ❤️‍🔥 Aftercare - With that said above, I will most certainly make sure you're emotionally and physically cared for after those activities. Having you comfortable while giving cuddles is something I'd love to provide while praising you. 🧸 🌕 Congrats! You have made it to the end of the post. If you're interested, feel free to send me a message. I'm on Discord as it's the best way to quickly communicate to me. I would like to take things slowly, ask questions, build up a relationship from the ground up, and see where it goes. No hard feelings if we drift apart. That's how life is; it comes and goes when you least expect it. I hope you have a wonderful day or evening. 🖊️ Sincerely, LacusBear 🐻

Hello everyone! I would like to introduce myself as the title describes. I've been interested in the community and been dabbling in the pet play community in my local city. I'm wanting to make friends and perhaps find my little whatever feels natural. My hobbies include reading, writing, anime, manga, walking, hiking, painting, Yu-Gi-Oh, and video games. I'm happy to chat with anyone. If you have any question, feel free as I'm an open book. For now, I hope everyone is having a good day this week. Sincerely, LacusBear 🐻