little.ember

hi everybody! I have never done anything like this, and I hope this isnt against rules, but I have always been an extremely drama free person and avoid conflict at all costs, but this is absolutely ridiculous.... I asked to see somebody's face, to determine if I would be even remotely physically attracted to him as much as I would be emotionally attracted to him. this resulted in two things: the man telling me that I am shallow and to "go swim with the shallow sharks," and a random man, whom I had never shared a word with, publicly shaming me on a post I made. he was outright transphobic (im not even trans) and told me I was in the wrong place and was not a Little, just basically a sexual submissive. which is kinda funny, thinking that asking to see what somebody looks like before you further a relationship with them is inherently sexual. I just wanted to make a post and genuinely warn other Littles, ESPECIALLY, trans Littles, to please, please be wary of this man. he seems very delusional and quite unhinged. I did not deserve the way he treated me, as other Littles on here do not deserve to be spoken to in that manner. DDLG is about compassion, love, caring, thoughtfulness, and many cuddles and kisses. this man does not seem to fall into any of those attributes. this man is not a daddy that any of us should lower our standards for. this is vile, absolutely vile, behavior on his part. thank you for reading, if you did, and sorry its such a long post..

got called shallow for asking to see a man's face, just to see if there was a physical attraction to him as well as emotional....... is that normal on this app or something? are most men on here as full of themselves as he was? 😭

sweet little girl looking for her nurturing and caring forever daddy 🩷