Fae of the North

what has been most successful for you? local munches/communities? here? reddit personals? fetlife personals? a shared IRL hobby, club, etc? at a vanilla/day-to-day event? at work? somewhere you least expect? tinder & all the dating apps? Facebook dating? other websites/ideas not known about?

Trying to broaden my playlist, and it's a challenge to find good ddlg-esque music! Please don't reccomend ddlg by ppcocaine. not my vibe. Ddlg music I am into: kinky-spicy vibes, littlespace vibes, romantic vibes, or a combo! examples of each in my taste: kinky/spicy: He Hit Me (and It Felt Like a Kiss) - nicole dollanganger, Daddy May I - ali holder, Don't Stand So Close to me - the police littlespace: Baby Einstein soundtrack, Kindle my Heart - A Little Princess movie, Who Will Sing me Lullabies - Kate Rusby, romantic: Sing Me to Sleep - alan walker, Let Me Be your Wings - Thumbelina movie, Nothings Gonna Hurt you Baby - cig after seggs also, feel free to rec good ddlg/littlespace songs outside of these 3 vibes for other people to enjoy new ideas too!

I am also seeking ddlg-type movies! For me, "A Little Princess" has ddlg vibes. Ofc it's not a romantic relationship between the characters since it is parental, but it has that littlespace element of creative expression and adoration for a caregiver that ddlg dynamics often model. I relate to Rapunzel from Tangled, always wanting Eugene to show her the world and having a zest for discovery and life. Rapunzel is bubbly and enjoys doing crafty things, like myself! But I wish I knew of some actual ddlg-coded movies, especially with some spice sprinkled in them!

I'm 23 and from northern Minnesota! I'm active in the local in-real-life kink community, and hoping to find a Daddy who is happy to join me with the same goals & live up here with me ☺️ I am a whimsical soul whose creativity shows up in various mediums: upcycling, painting, writing, poetry, voice-acting, sewing, and embroidery. In addition, I am a kitchen experimentalist who plays with flavors & ingredients to make hit dishes for those dear to me. Activities I enjoy: nordic skiing, hot tubs, hiking, kayaking, biking, camping, festivals, farmer's markets, ren faires, snuggling with my cat, hanging out with friends. Littlespace me likes the nature aesthetic, showing up in various ways: my cute yet woodland creature-patterns on clothes, or my collection of wild animal stuffies! When I'm smol, I also am often more silly & giggly, and feel less anxious. With a Daddy, I ageplay alot as well, especially when I feel love for him. I'm super excited to explore this ddlg community!!! I can't wait to meet other linkminded peeps and learn more cool ideas or activities in this lifestyle. For those seeking more details of my dating requirements, my personals post is here.

Age: 23 Little Age: 5~13 Role: Little/Middle, submissive, ageplayer, faerie princess, brat Location: northern Minnesota Sexual Orientation: straight, demisexual Looking for: Romantic Monogamous Daddy/Life Partner Relationship requirement: monogamous Status: single & happily waiting for the right person Hiiiii 🧚🏽‍♀️ I'm 23 and from northern Minnesota! I'm active in the local in-real-life kink community, and seeking a Daddy who is happy to join me with the same goals & live up here with me ☺️ I am a whimsical soul whose creativity shows up in various mediums: upcycling, painting, writing, poetry, voice-acting, sewing, and embroidery. In addition, I am a kitchen experimentalist who plays with flavors & ingredients to make hit dishes for those dear to me. Activities I enjoy: nordic skiing, hot tubs, hiking, kayaking, biking, camping, festivals, farmer's markets, ren faires, snuggling with my cat, hanging out with friends. Littlespace-me likes the nature aesthetic, showing up in various ways: my cute yet woodland creature-patterns on clothes, or my collection of wild animal stuffies! When I'm smol, I also am often more silly & giggly, and feel less anxious. With a Daddy, I ageplay alot as well, especially when I feel love for him. Ok! Onto the relationship & smexy stuff! Kinkz! ddlg, ageplay, shibari, spanking, manhandling, roleplay, degradation, sapiosexuality, biting, being a pillow princess. Kinkz I want to explore more/learn . . . suspension bondage, fireplay, choking, forest play, predator/prey, candle wax, whipping, tantra, psychedelic sensuality, sex magick ⚠️Hard Limits & Incompatibilities (please respect & heed these)⚠️ non-monogamy, threesomes, age 36+, long-distance, vasectomized, already having kids, not desiring kids in the long-term future, heavy 420, alcohol or substance use, diapers, watersports, anal, supporting Trump/being conservative, racism, homo/transphobia, cheating. Physical attributez Petite & healthy weight. Dark eyes & long wavy/curly thick hair. Big me: natural aesthetic or nordic styles, flannel, fleece or nature-print dresses, boho skirts & tops. Smol me: cute or spicy ddlg-style frills, sets, stockings, etc. About YOU, my future Daddy . . . (please read) Cannot stress enough. Please be 35 and younger. I will verify if we meet IRL. Don't waste our time lying. MUST be willing to permanently move to northern MN if a relationship blooms! I am NOT leaving here. Please don't make your entire personality about fitness/the gym/your muscles. I am more attracted to facial features, personality, and overall health than your 6-pack. Muscle-bragging actually is a turnoff & annoying to me. Just take care of yourself. Not expecting perfection. Slightly overweight is ok. No unkempt hair. Good hygiene. Soft dom/caregiver. AKA I like funishments. Spanking, fun punishments. The strict/cold dominance, the punishments such as revoked privileges, stern/cruel control, are a no-go. Strict routine discipline and cold dom vibes tap into my trauma. I like to be controlled when I want it, but outside spicy dynamic I value my autonomy. I am willing to dip my toes into master/slave or domestic dynamics but there is a likelihood I may not end up liking it. Dark ageplay: willing to engage this kink. I tend to be smol in a relationship, and have many related fantasies. Community-oriented. Willing to accompany me in the local kink munch scene. I have a whole network of nonsexual friendships there. I hope they can be your friends, too. (Again, nonsexual. We would be monogamous. We are there to learn/demo, exchange insights, make friends). Be betwixt a homebody & hustler. Neither extreme I can handle. I want to go out and do things. Be active. Pursue hobbies and social outings. But I also need quiet moments, nervous-system resets too: cuddling, doing nothing, watching movies, existing. You need to put in effort in this relationship. You are someone who wants to build a life with me as my future forever partner. Establish a family with me. Someone who takes dating with me slowly, because this is a major future we are talking about here. I take time to develop feelings and love for you. I take time to become your Little. I need that love, that organic connection developed. And this effort starts here. If you message me with a low-effort intro, you are not indicative of a serious dynamic.