BBGIRLSUB Posted February 8 Share Posted February 8 Hello, I am new to BDSM/DDLG, I’ve been in a LDR online ddlg dynamic for 4 months now. My Daddy and I use to talk everyday and made time for our dynamic together 2-3 times a week. recently my Daddy started at a new company and works 5 days a week 10 hr shifts. I have only talked to him a few times in the past month and he hasnt made time for our dynamic. i understand his life and career is very important and i want to support him and give him the space he is so clearly asking for. My feelings are a little hurt because i no longer feel like a priority to him but i want to be. any advice? I am a business owner myself, I have children, a part time job, I’m in school and have tons of hobbies yet I can’t stop stop thinking about him and what’s going on. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pinkbabby Posted February 9 Share Posted February 9 I have been experiencing the same! I just try to keep myself busy and get everything I need done when I can so when my daddy is available I’m free. I also take lots of pictures for him so he doesn’t forget what i look like lol it can be difficult to go without the same amount of attention as before but it doesn’t mean they are not still thinking about us 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BBGIRLSUB Posted February 9 Author Share Posted February 9 How do you stop yourself from going crazy? I feel like I’m being neglected and he won’t talk to me about it. He said he would make time for me on his days off but it’s been weeks and he hasn’t made any time for me or this dynamic Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pinkbabby Posted February 9 Share Posted February 9 I wish I had an answer for not going crazy to use for myself 😅 I asked for a serious sit down and explained how I felt and it helped for me. I would suggest the same. Maybe ask for a specific time to have a serious talk. (Our dynamic might be very different from yours because once in a while, I am allowed almost a “get out of jail free card”where I can step out of our dynamic and be like “hey you’re slacking” 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BBGIRLSUB Posted February 9 Author Share Posted February 9 My Daddy is doing his best but perhaps I’m too much idk. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pinkbabby Posted February 9 Share Posted February 9 I don’t think you are! I think you are being completely valid 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BBGIRLSUB Posted February 9 Author Share Posted February 9 Thank you. I’m trying to be patient with everything. thank you for your advice Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pinkbabby Posted February 9 Share Posted February 9 Of course! If it doesn’t work out we can always share mine 🤭 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BBGIRLSUB Posted February 9 Author Share Posted February 9 Hahaha I appreciate you! this is the first ddlg relationship I’ve had. We’ve created such an intimate connection, I can’t imagine calling anyone else daddy. obviously it will take time for me to heal and move on if that’s what it comes too. thanks again Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pinkbabby Posted February 9 Share Posted February 9 Of course! You can send me a dm whenever Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
softdaddydom Posted February 24 Share Posted February 24 From a Daddy's perspective. If he's committed to the relationship, then he can and will find the time to message you!!! I'm an older Daddy, late to the scene after having gotten married, have children, and also working... yet i could always find the time to message my littles, find time to spend at least a little time with them every day! I find it perplexing that a Daddy would leave his little one hanging for days, unless something was very wrong! (I have done that, but only because I was post surgery and in pain, sleeping lots, and my little one was aware of it) Otherwise, contact should be constant! There is no such thing as being too needy! You're a little! You're supposed to be needy and clingy and want lots of your Daddy's attention! 🙂 I hope things work out for you, but don't get discouraged if things don't! There is the right Daddy and/or little out there for everyone... you just have to be patient and keep looking till you find them! <hugs!!!> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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