How to find/ signs of a genuinely good daddy?

[littleplant.21]

Hi all!!! I just got out of an 3 month virtual realtionship with someone I met on here and the daddy/little dynamic was not a priority for him. He didn't really want my little side. I'm now worried that I'll never find someone who actually wants to be a daddy to me or worse end up in another situation where I become desperate and am begging for that connection and time. If you wouldn't mind, please share the process of how you knew your daddy or little was right for you! Also when signs of the wrong person appear or motives become questionable. Daddies share your thoughts too! Anything you think is worth mentioning is greatly appreciated! Thank youuuuu🫶💖

[DaddyABQ]

I believe that, if you take the DDLG aspect out of the equation, it's much easier to answer, because at the core of it, what you're looking for is still a stable and loving relationship. The fact that DDLG is a dynamic is just as much a factor as would be the fact that the two of you like skiing. That may sound a little reductive, but the signs of a bad daddy in a relationship is the same as a bad partner in any relationship. In any relationship, someone who moves faster or slower than you're comfortable, doesn't share with you the same way you share with them, or sets off those red flag warnings in your brain is probably someone with whom you should have a serious talk.

The things that are important in any relationship still apply, and for me it all comes down to mutual attraction, having a few things about which you're passionate that you share in common, and--most importantly--a demonstrated willingness to communicate and face any issues that arise with honesty and integrity.

I hope this helps in some way. I know it's kind of vague, but there is no one-size-fits-all solution for relationships, or we'd all do it.

[Joeybear]

Its just like anything else. If they prioritize your happiness and show you support. Its important always make sure someone earns the title daddy

[Kitiara207]

Someone you don't have to question what their objective is daily.  You don't have to worry if they are right.  Where you feel respected, cared for and appreciated the way you are.  Not one that says if only you were this or that.  One that asks what's on your mind and doesn't gloss over when you are breaking.  Someone who has been there...not in the exact same situation but can still understand.  One that makes you feel like you are not okay for now or a place holder until they find something else that you know you are enough and not too much.   Not giving any reason to doubt them.

However, you need to give them the same feelings;  The same understanding.  Being the only one on that side, the only one trying is too much to ask of anyone.  Supportive when they need it most sure but also when they don't.  Sorry having a hard day today.