Adult little girl would love a Christian Daddy Dom who believes in Domestic Discipline. Thought I would at least try LOL

[HarleyQuinn]

after having been single for a year and finally getting the courage to date again, I met a man off of Fetlife this passed Christmas. He was the most Dominant man I had ever met, charming, sexy and funny and we seemed to have everything in common. what was even more amazing is the fact that he was a Christian like me. Yes I am a Kinky Christian lol.
Well we ended up getting serious very fast, and we totally fell in love. We are both very passionate people and a little crazy. the problem was he took the Dom/sub thing to a much more extreme level than I ever thought I would be into. 

What’s weird is that he scared the hell out of me quite a few times though I admit I enjoyed the adrenaline rush. But he could honestly be extremely mean and abusive. So I had to force myself away from him because I still have feelings that I can’t control. 

Anyway I just thought I would get that out of the way lol. I’m a very honest and open person. The rest of my profile below was copied from my Fetlife profile. 


I am trying to get the courage to date again. My profile pictures are recent. I'm a 43 year old woman which feels weird for me to think about, but I've always been a little girl inside and I guess I always will be. People have always told me that I look younger than I am. Gray hair does not run in my family and I never dye my hair. I still have my original brown hair color. 

Honestly I've also never really liked makeup. I will occasionally wear light makeup once in a while, but most of the time I really don't like having it on my face. I've been blessed with clear skin my whole life so I honestly never needed it.
I'm not bragging about that but I feel lucky that I've always had clear skin. I also have NO piercings. Not even my ears are pierced. I've always been very feminine but I have never liked wearing jewelry. I just find it annoying and unnecessary. I guess I've always been different in that way. I've also never liked tattoos so I have none of those either lol.

I have no kids. I have never even been pregnant, nor have I ever been married. I've had several serious long-term relationships. I have to admit that none of the men in my passed serious relationships have been nearly Dominant enough for me, and that true “spark” never seemed to be there. The only one who seemed to be able to light that spark was the last guy I just dated, and he turned out to be a psycho. Just my luck lol.

Honestly I am also a serious Christian with a very close relationship with the LORD Jesus Christ. Lots of people may find that odd, but it really isn't. I am very much interested in the idea of "Christian Domestic Discipline" because the Bible actually does support Wives being Submissive to their husbands.

I know society seems to be very much against this idea today, but in my heart I know it's the truth. Because I've actually had two life changing Supernatural encounters with Jesus Christ that transformed me into the passionate believer that I am today. My first encounter was in 2012, and then the next one in 2014. It was pretty incredible.

I have to be clear that I have no interest in the idea of children getting spanked, nor do I have any interest in the idea of blood relatives spanking each other. I was NOT spanked growing up and the only spanking I really believe in is between adult couples.

I know some Bible believers argue that spanking children is what God wants, and I know those types might call me weird, but I feel in my heart that God prefers it between a husband and a Wife. And I would never lie to myself because I know damn well I have a sexual fetish for being spanked, Dominated and humiliated by a hot, manly, Dominant and very strict Christian "Daddy Dom" who wants me to be his "baby girl" and maybe train me to be his "Trad Wife." Lol. 

I have so much more I wanna sat but there isn't enough room. So if you wanna know more just ask.

Also sorry for looking kind of slobbish in some of my pics. Was just goofing around my house the passed couple of weeks lol. 

 

[Grandpa Hawkeye]

Hello Harley. Nice to meet you. I'm 66 years old. I live in Iowa. I work 50 to 60 hours a week so I can relate to long hours. 

I'm a Christian as well although I will admit I do not attend church. I'm more closer to my Lord in his creation than in a church full of hypocrites and judgemental people. When I do attend church, I prefer the more traditional faiths.  Lutheran, Anglican, United Church of Christ.

I'm interested in seeing where this might lead. I hope to hear back.

[DominicanDaddy]

Hi Harley,

 

I read your entire post, and what struck me most wasn’t the BDSM or even the Christian side of it. It was the honesty.

It takes a lot of courage to admit that someone could make you feel alive, light a spark you’d been missing for years, and still be someone you had to walk away from. Most people would never be that honest with themselves.

I can also understand why dating again feels intimidating after an experience like that. When someone gives you both the highest highs and the deepest fears, it can make trusting your own heart difficult for a while.

For what it’s worth, I don’t think you’re crazy for wanting a strong, dominant man who shares your faith. I think everyone wants to feel safe enough to be fully themselves with the right person.

I’d genuinely enjoy getting to know the woman behind the profile. The one who loves Jesus, laughs at herself, says exactly what’s on her mind, and somehow manages to be both a grown woman and a little girl at heart.

What was it about your encounters with Jesus that changed your life so profoundly?

I’d love to hear that story.

[SmurfDaddy]

On 6/9/2026 at 5:35 AM, HarleyQuinn said:

after having been single for a year and finally getting the courage to date again, I met a man off of Fetlife this passed Christmas. He was the most Dominant man I had ever met, charming, sexy and funny and we seemed to have everything in common. what was even more amazing is the fact that he was a Christian like me. Yes I am a Kinky Christian lol.
Well we ended up getting serious very fast, and we totally fell in love. We are both very passionate people and a little crazy. the problem was he took the Dom/sub thing to a much more extreme level than I ever thought I would be into. 

What’s weird is that he scared the hell out of me quite a few times though I admit I enjoyed the adrenaline rush. But he could honestly be extremely mean and abusive. So I had to force myself away from him because I still have feelings that I can’t control. 

Anyway I just thought I would get that out of the way lol. I’m a very honest and open person. The rest of my profile below was copied from my Fetlife profile. 


I am trying to get the courage to date again. My profile pictures are recent. I'm a 43 year old woman which feels weird for me to think about, but I've always been a little girl inside and I guess I always will be. People have always told me that I look younger than I am. Gray hair does not run in my family and I never dye my hair. I still have my original brown hair color. 

Honestly I've also never really liked makeup. I will occasionally wear light makeup once in a while, but most of the time I really don't like having it on my face. I've been blessed with clear skin my whole life so I honestly never needed it.
I'm not bragging about that but I feel lucky that I've always had clear skin. I also have NO piercings. Not even my ears are pierced. I've always been very feminine but I have never liked wearing jewelry. I just find it annoying and unnecessary. I guess I've always been different in that way. I've also never liked tattoos so I have none of those either lol.

I have no kids. I have never even been pregnant, nor have I ever been married. I've had several serious long-term relationships. I have to admit that none of the men in my passed serious relationships have been nearly Dominant enough for me, and that true “spark” never seemed to be there. The only one who seemed to be able to light that spark was the last guy I just dated, and he turned out to be a psycho. Just my luck lol.

Honestly I am also a serious Christian with a very close relationship with the LORD Jesus Christ. Lots of people may find that odd, but it really isn't. I am very much interested in the idea of "Christian Domestic Discipline" because the Bible actually does support Wives being Submissive to their husbands.

I know society seems to be very much against this idea today, but in my heart I know it's the truth. Because I've actually had two life changing Supernatural encounters with Jesus Christ that transformed me into the passionate believer that I am today. My first encounter was in 2012, and then the next one in 2014. It was pretty incredible.

I have to be clear that I have no interest in the idea of children getting spanked, nor do I have any interest in the idea of blood relatives spanking each other. I was NOT spanked growing up and the only spanking I really believe in is between adult couples.

I know some Bible believers argue that spanking children is what God wants, and I know those types might call me weird, but I feel in my heart that God prefers it between a husband and a Wife. And I would never lie to myself because I know damn well I have a sexual fetish for being spanked, Dominated and humiliated by a hot, manly, Dominant and very strict Christian "Daddy Dom" who wants me to be his "baby girl" and maybe train me to be his "Trad Wife." Lol. 

I have so much more I wanna sat but there isn't enough room. So if you wanna know more just ask.

Also sorry for looking kind of slobbish in some of my pics. Was just goofing around my house the passed couple of weeks lol. 

 

Hello pretty girl. Im Mr. Cameron. Or Mr. Smurf if you like. Sweetheart you need a true CG (caregiver), the last guy sounds like a tyrant Who was able to find a dynamic that he could hide his personal issues behind to make it seem OK. I’m a daddy Dom of about 20 years I’m a soft daddy but as your dominant eye can be anything you need me to be we may cross boundaries from time to time but in the beginning one needs to press the boundariesAnd sometimes cross the line in order to know where those boundaries are. It’s about growth. Bonding. Not just HIS pleasure. Feel free to contact me any time. Id love to sweep you off your feet….. and into restraint swing, maybe start out with some feather tickling on the bottoms of your feet till you cry laughing and beg me to stop…….. the rest continues inside our private messages. See you there?