18f looking for my benevolent sexist daddy dom.

[gummy bear princess]

Hello. I'm going by gummy bear right now (alias) 

i am a freshly 18 year old little sub located in michigan. but I'll accept men from almost any western country especially the united kingdom, canada or obviously america. i should preface by saying i am a little and baby sub. abdl and ageplay as well as the proper real effort and genuine interest in the non sexual aspects is non negotiable. i don't mind long term for a little while and doing things over video calls but I will not send nudes especially if we haven't met in real life. im willing to travel anywhere for the right daddy. onto the long ass post.

Here are my looks as i know its important for some of you:

I am currently a little chubby but im not morbidly obese just chubby, im mixed race, brown eyes, brown skin and black hair.

i am a real anti feminist (not a traditionalist or a genuine misogynist i am just an anti feminist.) 

I have a kink list longer than the u.s constitution.

i know more about ageplay and ddlg than a vast majority of people because it has became my hyperfixation i have been learning about in various ways long before i was supposed to i was just studying both the safe for work aspects and NSFW aspects. this saddens me and hardly makes it bragging rights i just want to say i put so much research into this over the course of years rather than relying on porn or aesthetic videos online like many seem to do. 

 

i have my own money i will never ask you for yours. no I don't work. don't need to. 

 

with my form of anti feminism because i know you may ask i hold both women and men accountable in ways the past and present has not considered.

 

i dont do situationships i like a slow burn relationship. 

 

I'm very passionate about being subservient and inferior in my relationship. I don't mind providing other women for my daddy to enjoy nor do i mind him having other women he fucks.

 

there is a lot im willing to give and do. I'm currently working on myself everyday so i can be perfect. 

 

Things i like in a man:

I don't care about looks or height or what money a man has or how big his dick is. 9/10 if this is all you have to brag about or all you care about telling me about or the main thing you have to share i am going to assume you arent a real or suitable daddy dom because you aren't appealing to my needs you are appealing to common superficial wants that has no benefit to me if i cared about those things i could rent a man and call him daddy without him actually acting like one and have a similar experience. I don't care if your bald with one leg (both arms are preferable but i suppose it's just a preference i can do without) 

 

i like a man that doesn't have a "submissive side" or is submissive. now if your young around my age or not much older you may think in order to not be submissive it means just being a little bossy and being a top. 

a dominant learns the needs of a sub (just as a sub should learn the needs of a dominant) and provides those needs (if he is comfortable) as well as telling the sub what to do.

a dominant and leader can lead a conversation.

anyways moving on.

i like men that can read and doesn't use excessive abbreviations or shorten every or a lot of words because to me thats what teenagers do. or use excessive filler words. i don't want to feel like im more articulate than the man who is supposed to be leading me. and theres nothing against guys that do that it's just not my preference.

i like a man with integrity and weight behind his words and he knows the meaning and weight of the words he uses especially the honorifics and terms of endearment or names given based off trust like the word daddy.

 

i like a man that is passionate about being a dominant like i am being a submissive and making sure all his needs get met and then some as they deserve to be. i dont like a man that says he is into certain kinks just to half-ass them hear me when i say half ass or do these kinks in a lazy way and just see every kink as a very short intro to intercourse. 

 

I like a man that knows or is willing to learn the difference between littles and middles now i cant blame men for not knowing cus a lot of women dont know. also the difference between these age dreamers on here and ageplayers and age regressors because those are different categories and yes words and definitions do matter. again weight behind words. 

 

i like a man that carries himself with respect and knows his worth and doesn't degrade himself or put all his value into what he has between his legs. 

 

i like a man that steers away from feminine chores like cooking and cleaning I want to do that i love doing that its how i show my love.

 

ideally a man that can stay in control of himself.

 

a man that works or has hobbies. (listen I don't care what you make or what job you work you could be a burger flipper i just want a man that's financially responsible to know if he is suitable to take over my assets as the end goal is marriage.)

 

i would love a man that is versatile and can be both a benevolent sexist and a misogynist. but not in the herd mentality stereotypical way there is many ways to do this and carry yourself.

another thing herd mentality thats one common issue in these communities guys sounding the exact same when describing how they would dominate me. (again i know subs are just as bad if not worse at times i am a dom to women)

 

i like observers and detail oriented men.

my daddy would have a lot of responsibilities in real life as ageplay is not my kink but a fetish for me and it would come with lots of responsibilities on his part.

you got a hint of what i like now i should tell you what I don't want:

I don't want to be a mother or a man with children or who is on the fence about children. yes i have considered every possibility and i originally wanted a compromise but now I don't see the realism in this.

 

I don't want married men or to share a house with women all the time.

 

i dont want to have to dominate or top from the bottom once we established a relationship and boundaries.

 

I am a real female and would prefer my man not be lgbtqia nothing against them i just don't want that in my relationship.

 

I don't want a man that doesn't understand the need differences of a real little or baby sub and treat me like a slave or a pet. being good with littles will help you go far.

 

this isn't something I don't like necessarily but i feel its important to say but just because your with a little (ageplay wise) doesn't mean you are restricted to only being nice you can be mean or sadistic at times and even do things you like to do with pets and slaves but its your tone and how its done not necessarily what is done. in often times.

here are 10 of my favorite things about ageplay in no particular order

 number 1 is the humiliation of a boy just deciding he is my daddy and making rules and creating parental power imbalances while not being that much older than me (or maybe being much older than me i don't mind) and being able to change me or manhandle me or do as he pleases whenever he pleases because im his little girl because he decided it. after a slow burn of course.

 

 

2.having to follow child or baby like rules.

 

3. being talked to like I don't understand anything or being explained things randomly like i am a baby.

 

4. mixing ageplay concepts into extreme concepts like misogyny or benevolent sexism or raceplay.

 

5. being punished (not like boring surface level sexual punishments) but being punished by my daddy.

 

6.diaper humiliation.

 

7.restricting social media and technology access (irl) and putting parental controls on my phone.

 

8.being taken care of like a baby and being given baths and enforced play time snd schedules without being asked what i want.

 

9.the idea that my boyfriend thinks im much better as a baby or little girl and this shows up in many ways one relevant to this being him fucking other women while im put down for a nap or in the other room playing or in my princess chair.

 

10.ddlg and abdl bondage

 

Bonus mention: when daddy ignores me and pretends he can't understand me and does whatever he likes even if I don't like it. or asks me questions and answers for me not even waiting for me to answer in both safe for work and NSFW aspects. 

another honorable mention:being forced to play painful dehumanizing games for daddys amusement because im his baby girl what can i do.

this isn't everything but if i said everything I'd be here all day.

here is my kink list: (not everything) every kink i have i have dozens of fantasies, opinions and nuances of each one. (yes i am autistic)

Ageplay (i like incest play and non incest play actually non incest is better because it is hotter to me ask me why)

Abdl

manhandling (both in a safe for work and nsfw way)

domestic violence

misogyny

benevolent sexism

raceplay 

blackmail

roleplays such as:

mentally disabled abuse kink (I'm actually mentally disabled)

hazing or bullying

ddlg roleplays 

kidnapping/stalking. 

 

gaslighting

hypnotism

painal

boot worship

CNC (like real cnc not just rape play)

rape play

branch of cnc but i like forced infantilization or forced regression. 

forniphilia

klismaphilia

wedgies

toilet play (clean toilets only scat is a limi)

piss play

piss holding

cuckqueaning.

bullying other women.

trauma play

dacryphilia 

puppet play.

dollification 

bimbofication 

dumbnification 

somnophillia and dormaphillia 

size difference 

safe word play

ice play

ageplay bondage 

nose hooks

shock collars 

chasity belts

cages

worship

rimming 

sex tapes 

mansplaining 

asphyxiation.

throat fucking 

pussy stitching

pet play

slave play

clothed male naked female/cmnf

there's more this is just off the top of my head.

my hard limits:

pussy eating/female ass eating

female orgasm or being forced or asked to "enjoy it" 

scat

cutting and excessive biting

lot of blood

amputation/"nugget kink" 

being with a male sub or male diaper wearer.

excessive domestic violence. to be specific excessive as in serious physical harm.

having other littles or sharing my daddy with other littles.

being treated like a slave both verbally and physically.

getting my head or eyebrows shaven

breeding

tattoos

branding.

anything that involves debasement of the male gender or my daddy.

soft limits:

drinking piss (i know i put this in but i felt i should say i like this i just dont like it excessively)

puke.

here is my safe for work interests:

i prefer playing toys and games and painting over coloring although i color too.

 

i don't watch the newer kids and baby shows i watch the ones i had when i was growing up or ones from before my time. 

 

i love to cook, bake, volunteer and take care of animals and the vulnerable, journal my kinks and opinions, play video games, board games, go swimming i can swim 4 acres and back not to brag, playing with slime, gardening, reading, training other  women, researching ways to be a better good girl for my future man.

my discord is lilypadsnewaccountagain_39078 if you are interested.

please don't text me being vague or assuming that i know your competent because like how theres a lot of incompetent fake subs theres also that for doms. 

[lovingDaddy00]

Interesting to read but how does someone so young become so twisted lol 

[gummy bear princess]

1 hour ago, lovingDaddy00 said:

Interesting to read but how does someone so young become so twisted lol 

unlimited access to the Internet as a kid. i chose knowledge. 

[lovingDaddy00]

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