gummy bear princess

are you comprehending though? because no. in personal relationships sure you can change the meaning of words and be loose with terminology or even change it up. but just because you change it up in a personal relationship does not change the meaning. just because i use say snapping turtle in replacement word of love does not mean the meaning of that word changes. it does not mean snapping turtles are automatically romantic partners. when you are dealing with general people outside of personal private relationships its important to know the real meaning behind what you claim versus what you think it is based on poor use of context clues or limited research. this especially because you are not an age regressor just because you have a non sexual littlespace dynamic.

okay so Ageplay can be entirely non sexual it does not have to be only limited to the bedroom. ageplay comes in many forms and most kinks and fetishes even outside of ageplay can also be non sexual. just because she acted like a little outside of sex doesn't mean she was an age regressor. a little that is totally non sexual like at all when they are little like period. that is a age regressor. see anybody can be an age regressor even minors. however ageplayers can be sexual they don't have to be sexual and yes if they are in a dynamic like ddlg they may not always be boinking to play a little/daddy like role. ageplay is something that can be sexual its not something that necessarily is while age regression and age regressors are never sexual when they are little. a common misconception is in order to be a real little you have to be a age regressor so technically i won't fault anyone for saying they are also an age regressor even if its incorrect because most people think ageplay or ddlg is the same as incest play and its only sexual so littles that see this dynamic being treated as just foreplay for sex they are going to say well i am an age regressor too even though thats not how that works. see not to call doms out but a lot of self proclaimed doms think these kinks and fetishes are just a means for lazy foreplay and with nobody doing research fault going equally on both subs and doms its much simpler to say well i am an age regressor and ageplayer even if it is not correct the only way this can be correct is if you have something like DiD and one of your alters is a total non sexual little. otherwise it's incorrect terminology. the terminology is important because one is for many people, a safe for work coping mechanism while people do age regress for fun and thats valid too it's often a coping mechanism and sexual content can pull a age regressor out of little space. a age regressor is usually an adult outside of their littlespace although some age regress 24/7. minors can also age regress as i discussed so it's very seperate for good reasons because blurring the lines can push out whats a coping mechanism and trauma response safe for everyone and turn it into something its not leaving real age regressors in the dark. now ageplayers while this isn't discussed can also be a coping mechanism and trauma response but its a version that can be sexualized it combats trauma in a different adult way something that is only truly suitable for adults. now when its like a small group of people who know better i say its okay to be loose with terminology but broadly i try not to be because i don't want to contribute to anymore bs age regressors have to go through even though they shame us ageplayers.

new year same stupidity and lack of kink literacy.

i am so furious my phone died after i finished typing up a whole book. with your question theres not much i can tell you when it comes to trust as trust is nowhere the biggest thing i learned. I believe men are more lied to as women are encouraged and rewarded for lying to men these days. i gave men very little reason to lie. the very few men i allowed to get in a serious relationship with me never broke my trust. if i tell them they are free to fuck or even romantically be with whoever they just can't have other littles it kinda eliminates the biggest thing people lie about in relationships. i always prioritized honesty in my relationships i would much rather a man be honest with me and it hurts me than lie. now i understand with this there will be times where i hear things i don't want to whether he is wrong about something and continues to be. or maybe i am just not in a state of mind to accept when hes right sometimes. it will come with difficulties but i accept this over being happy with lies. the men i was with despite there being issues i respect because i believe to my knowledge they were honest with me. now i would say one of my biggest things i learned was learning what i actually am and what i want and how to ask for it. i used to naively think when i was a pre teen and young teenager that "bratting" would automatically get me what i wanted i eventually realized that was not real bratting because real bratting is something both parties acknowledge and agree on to the other guys perspective reasonably so i was being defiant or a bitch. that wasn't a way to get what i want and it wasn't even fun for me. i always been a person indifferent to how much money a man has, what he looks like, what gifts he buys, how big his junk is or whatever other stupid shit is out there. what i care about is a man with integrity, has a good sense of responsibility, great literacy not just knowing how to read but understanding what he is saying and what communities hes claiming among other things relating to literacy, i like a man that not only talks but acts with more intelligence and maturity than i so i don't feel like i have to top from the bottom, a man passionate about being a dominant and the nuances that come with that rather than what most people think is treating someone like a slave vs being overwhelmingly sweet. most people don't talk about the nuances. i like versatility because i am a versatile submissive not just for my own pleasure but for others i love pleasing. i hear often i would never find a man like that but often times when i hear that its from men who can't read or understand a lot of concepts above a 4th grade level. so i ignore that opinion. i am aware theres not a subset of men like that but i believe there is only one man on this earth for me and i am good with that it would make me feel all the more special. i don't just submit to any and every man i have my standards the way i have them because i believe theres only one romantic soulmate on this earth meant for me and if i can be possible so can he. so i don't settle just because someone tells me to never have especially if its a simple minded fool as i am not for the simple minded. that was a lesson i had to learn as well to not entertain every fool just because i am single these people choose stupidity and ignorance for their own reasons. i am not meant to be their teacher i am meant to be a wife. i used to see it as being helpful but you can only help those who want it and it's not my place to convince a man he needs help to not sound like a troglodyte. there is a lot i learned and a lot i continue to learn. but one thing i never had to worry about with romance was trust. in family and friends though trust was something always misused against me. i will dm you.

A MIDDLE IS NOT THE SAME THING AS A LITTLE! and there is no such thing as an "adult little" you are either an adult who plays as a little or you are an adult. a little is someone who plays as or regresses to a age under 10. a middle is what some of you self proclaimed daddy doms want they are the school girls and college girls. they are 11-19. ageplay is not restricted to acting younger either. you can act older if you wish. and another thing littles that are strictly safe for work are age regressors not ageplayers! if you have a little or you are one and you regress but outside of your regression you are playing as your real age that is not ageplay that is just you being an age regressor and having an adult headspace. to those of you daddy doms shaming real ageplay littles shame on you. do your fucking research. same goes for you age dreamers and regressors or ageplayers even that don't know what you really are. thank you!

thank you for reading and your kind words mister! ❤️

thank you! and yes it is unfortunate but i do believe i was smarter than most so i am not too upset about it.

hello sorry for my lack of response i am new to being on this site while i have known about it for years i never posted here. and that is a good question it is hard to choose because i am a person when i learn i usually learn a lot at once both from myself and from others. one thing i learned is i am not going to make everyone happy, matter of fact most people will not like me either because they don't like the way i look which i have come to love how i look now even if others may not. or if it's for my opinions, my desires, personality or lifestyle. i decided to not let others opinions have any effect on me in any way because i believe i have a good head on my shoulder whether what i believe is right or wrong i believe the way i practice is harmless and as long as i do not hurt anyone or myself i am doing better than most. but just because i don't let other opinions stick to me doesn't mean i shut them out or ignore them i accept all that comes with them parts i may see reason in and still disagree or may not at all. i feel like i used to just be what i thought people want me to be or needed me to be and lived to please others but now i don't anymore not in a "i won't do nothing nice anymore" way absolutely not, i am a kind person. but in a either "accept me as i am or leave" and i have been much happier since and my chronic depression went away when i stopped caring. which i didn't think was possible to become totally indifferent to what other people think. but i am. it starts small, which is another lesson i had to learn. i cant do everything at once when i want to in that moment like a baby i have to crawl before i walk and walk before i run. this mentality is still kinda new for me but i am doing much better than i did in the past. (although fun fact: when i did start walking i just went straight to running i didn't start off walking and that explains most of my decision making up until a couple years ago. usually running into things always worked for me but now i am more patient and just worry about where i am going to start practice that for as long as it takes then i run or walk if more patience is required) i have a lot of values most people do not carry and i built those on my own and i am proud of that. i kept myself a virgin, i never sent nudes to anyone, i never kissed anyone or gave into anyone even if i felt desperate for love. i never allowed myself to be pressured or rushed into a dynamic that i know is set up to fail. even if i rush a lot of things the process of courting is not one of those things. i believe in loyalty and i only date to marry despite not being Christian. i get made fun of for dressing modestly in public but i never changed nor will I. not because i believe there is anything necessarily wrong with dressing revealing i just love modest clothing (i do like revealing clothing too, but at home only 😉) those are some of my values i carry and what i have learned over the years. although i could write and i am being so serious 100 pages on what i learned from relationships.

unlimited access to the Internet as a kid. i chose knowledge.

Hello. I'm going by gummy bear right now (alias) i am a freshly 18 year old little sub located in michigan. but I'll accept men from almost any western country especially the united kingdom, canada or obviously america. i should preface by saying i am a little and baby sub. abdl and ageplay as well as the proper real effort and genuine interest in the non sexual aspects is non negotiable. i don't mind long term for a little while and doing things over video calls but I will not send nudes especially if we haven't met in real life. im willing to travel anywhere for the right daddy. onto the long ass post. Here are my looks as i know its important for some of you: I am currently a little chubby but im not morbidly obese just chubby, im mixed race, brown eyes, brown skin and black hair. i am a real anti feminist (not a traditionalist or a genuine misogynist i am just an anti feminist.) I have a kink list longer than the u.s constitution. i know more about ageplay and ddlg than a vast majority of people because it has became my hyperfixation i have been learning about in various ways long before i was supposed to i was just studying both the safe for work aspects and NSFW aspects. this saddens me and hardly makes it bragging rights i just want to say i put so much research into this over the course of years rather than relying on porn or aesthetic videos online like many seem to do. i have my own money i will never ask you for yours. no I don't work. don't need to. with my form of anti feminism because i know you may ask i hold both women and men accountable in ways the past and present has not considered. i dont do situationships i like a slow burn relationship. I'm very passionate about being subservient and inferior in my relationship. I don't mind providing other women for my daddy to enjoy nor do i mind him having other women he fucks. there is a lot im willing to give and do. I'm currently working on myself everyday so i can be perfect. Things i like in a man: I don't care about looks or height or what money a man has or how big his dick is. 9/10 if this is all you have to brag about or all you care about telling me about or the main thing you have to share i am going to assume you arent a real or suitable daddy dom because you aren't appealing to my needs you are appealing to common superficial wants that has no benefit to me if i cared about those things i could rent a man and call him daddy without him actually acting like one and have a similar experience. I don't care if your bald with one leg (both arms are preferable but i suppose it's just a preference i can do without) i like a man that doesn't have a "submissive side" or is submissive. now if your young around my age or not much older you may think in order to not be submissive it means just being a little bossy and being a top. a dominant learns the needs of a sub (just as a sub should learn the needs of a dominant) and provides those needs (if he is comfortable) as well as telling the sub what to do. a dominant and leader can lead a conversation. anyways moving on. i like men that can read and doesn't use excessive abbreviations or shorten every or a lot of words because to me thats what teenagers do. or use excessive filler words. i don't want to feel like im more articulate than the man who is supposed to be leading me. and theres nothing against guys that do that it's just not my preference. i like a man with integrity and weight behind his words and he knows the meaning and weight of the words he uses especially the honorifics and terms of endearment or names given based off trust like the word daddy. i like a man that is passionate about being a dominant like i am being a submissive and making sure all his needs get met and then some as they deserve to be. i dont like a man that says he is into certain kinks just to half-ass them hear me when i say half ass or do these kinks in a lazy way and just see every kink as a very short intro to intercourse. I like a man that knows or is willing to learn the difference between littles and middles now i cant blame men for not knowing cus a lot of women dont know. also the difference between these age dreamers on here and ageplayers and age regressors because those are different categories and yes words and definitions do matter. again weight behind words. i like a man that carries himself with respect and knows his worth and doesn't degrade himself or put all his value into what he has between his legs. i like a man that steers away from feminine chores like cooking and cleaning I want to do that i love doing that its how i show my love. ideally a man that can stay in control of himself. a man that works or has hobbies. (listen I don't care what you make or what job you work you could be a burger flipper i just want a man that's financially responsible to know if he is suitable to take over my assets as the end goal is marriage.) i would love a man that is versatile and can be both a benevolent sexist and a misogynist. but not in the herd mentality stereotypical way there is many ways to do this and carry yourself. another thing herd mentality thats one common issue in these communities guys sounding the exact same when describing how they would dominate me. (again i know subs are just as bad if not worse at times i am a dom to women) i like observers and detail oriented men. my daddy would have a lot of responsibilities in real life as ageplay is not my kink but a fetish for me and it would come with lots of responsibilities on his part. you got a hint of what i like now i should tell you what I don't want: I don't want to be a mother or a man with children or who is on the fence about children. yes i have considered every possibility and i originally wanted a compromise but now I don't see the realism in this. I don't want married men or to share a house with women all the time. i dont want to have to dominate or top from the bottom once we established a relationship and boundaries. I am a real female and would prefer my man not be lgbtqia nothing against them i just don't want that in my relationship. I don't want a man that doesn't understand the need differences of a real little or baby sub and treat me like a slave or a pet. being good with littles will help you go far. this isn't something I don't like necessarily but i feel its important to say but just because your with a little (ageplay wise) doesn't mean you are restricted to only being nice you can be mean or sadistic at times and even do things you like to do with pets and slaves but its your tone and how its done not necessarily what is done. in often times. here are 10 of my favorite things about ageplay in no particular order number 1 is the humiliation of a boy just deciding he is my daddy and making rules and creating parental power imbalances while not being that much older than me (or maybe being much older than me i don't mind) and being able to change me or manhandle me or do as he pleases whenever he pleases because im his little girl because he decided it. after a slow burn of course. 2.having to follow child or baby like rules. 3. being talked to like I don't understand anything or being explained things randomly like i am a baby. 4. mixing ageplay concepts into extreme concepts like misogyny or benevolent sexism or raceplay. 5. being punished (not like boring surface level sexual punishments) but being punished by my daddy. 6.diaper humiliation. 7.restricting social media and technology access (irl) and putting parental controls on my phone. 8.being taken care of like a baby and being given baths and enforced play time snd schedules without being asked what i want. 9.the idea that my boyfriend thinks im much better as a baby or little girl and this shows up in many ways one relevant to this being him fucking other women while im put down for a nap or in the other room playing or in my princess chair. 10.ddlg and abdl bondage Bonus mention: when daddy ignores me and pretends he can't understand me and does whatever he likes even if I don't like it. or asks me questions and answers for me not even waiting for me to answer in both safe for work and NSFW aspects. another honorable mention:being forced to play painful dehumanizing games for daddys amusement because im his baby girl what can i do. this isn't everything but if i said everything I'd be here all day. here is my kink list: (not everything) every kink i have i have dozens of fantasies, opinions and nuances of each one. (yes i am autistic) Ageplay (i like incest play and non incest play actually non incest is better because it is hotter to me ask me why) Abdl manhandling (both in a safe for work and nsfw way) domestic violence misogyny benevolent sexism raceplay blackmail roleplays such as: mentally disabled abuse kink (I'm actually mentally disabled) hazing or bullying ddlg roleplays kidnapping/stalking. gaslighting hypnotism painal boot worship CNC (like real cnc not just rape play) rape play branch of cnc but i like forced infantilization or forced regression. forniphilia klismaphilia wedgies toilet play (clean toilets only scat is a limi) piss play piss holding cuckqueaning. bullying other women. trauma play dacryphilia puppet play. dollification bimbofication dumbnification somnophillia and dormaphillia size difference safe word play ice play ageplay bondage nose hooks shock collars chasity belts cages worship rimming sex tapes mansplaining asphyxiation. throat fucking pussy stitching pet play slave play clothed male naked female/cmnf there's more this is just off the top of my head. my hard limits: pussy eating/female ass eating female orgasm or being forced or asked to "enjoy it" scat cutting and excessive biting lot of blood amputation/"nugget kink" being with a male sub or male diaper wearer. excessive domestic violence. to be specific excessive as in serious physical harm. having other littles or sharing my daddy with other littles. being treated like a slave both verbally and physically. getting my head or eyebrows shaven breeding tattoos branding. anything that involves debasement of the male gender or my daddy. soft limits: drinking piss (i know i put this in but i felt i should say i like this i just dont like it excessively) puke. here is my safe for work interests: i prefer playing toys and games and painting over coloring although i color too. i don't watch the newer kids and baby shows i watch the ones i had when i was growing up or ones from before my time. i love to cook, bake, volunteer and take care of animals and the vulnerable, journal my kinks and opinions, play video games, board games, go swimming i can swim 4 acres and back not to brag, playing with slime, gardening, reading, training other women, researching ways to be a better good girl for my future man. my discord is lilypadsnewaccountagain_39078 if you are interested. please don't text me being vague or assuming that i know your competent because like how theres a lot of incompetent fake subs theres also that for doms.