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If this post is up, I'm still searching, feel free to reach out! I've come to realize that I have a lot of love and affection not currently going anywhere, and I would love to find someone to spend it on. So.. hello there! My name is Johan, I'm 30-years-old and I'm from Northern Norway. I've been exploring the Daddy/Caretaker side of me for about 8 years now. I'm a nerdy introvert who enjoys the little things in life. A nice walk with a gentle conversation, going thrifting for cool clothes, rewatching the same sitcom for the 20th time, trying to pet every stray cat I see, stealing fries from someone after I demolished my own food in two minutes, or kicking back on the couch with scented candles and a good movie. If you want to learn more about my tastes, I encourage you to check out my profile! I dream of finding my person, my best friend, my soulmate, someone I can go through the mess that is life with. Maybe you're reading this right now? I want to know how your day went, want to celebrate the little victories, as well as support you when things are difficult. I want to hear all about the weird dream you had, or the song you've been listening to on repeat for the last 6 hours, or hear about the random thought you had at 3 a.m. I'm looking to take things slow, fall in love with the woman first - and then over time develop a DDLG/CGL dynamic that is uniquely our own, based on our own needs, personalities and love languages. As a Daddy and partner, I'm soft and affectionate, but I can also have a dominant, teasing, and playfully possessive side. I'm a hopeless romantic, and love writing little notes and fawning over my special girl, treating her like a princess, and always strive to make her feel safe and cared for. I'm nurturing and protective by nature, and I'm looking to build a relationship that's a safe harbour, free of judgement, a place for self-improvement and growth for the both of us. I'm not looking to play games, or to fill a temporary boredom, I'm looking for something honest and real. As for my specs, I'm 175 cm/5'9'', pale, blue-eyed, blonde, broad shouldered, and have a little bit of a dad bod (working on it). I also have rosacea, so my face can get a little rosy sometimes. I like to think that I'm compact, and that if I was an ipod, I would be an ipod Nano. I like to think I'm funny, and can get into humour both dark and wholesome. I try to approach life with humour and positivity, while still acknowledging that it can be painful at times. I tend to enjoy girls whose synapses fire off in odd and unexpected ways - girls not afraid to be themselves once they're comfortable, with all their quirks on full display. Should we be a good match, expect calls and voice messages about deep topics or absolutely nothing, silly pictures on snapchat, bedtime phone calls (if that's your thing, stories included!) watching shows and movies, playing games, that I check up on you frequently, and that I'm your biggest cheerleader. Who are you? I'm looking for someone affectionate, communicative and emotionally open. Someone who wants to be silly and laugh together, but who can also sit down and have difficult conversations when they're necessary. You don't need to have your entire life figured out, but I'd like us to encourage each other to grow. Mutual effort is important, I want someone who is as excited to learn about me, as I am to learn about them. Your location isn't super important to me, what matters more is connection. I work night shifts, so I find my waking hours aligns well with the U.S as well as European timezones. If you want to see if we click, feel free drop a comment below or send me a DM! Either way, I wish you the best of luck finding your person! 🤩