I agree that there are many like mossy and then there are littles who you wouldn’t even know were littles. I’ve been a little since 2012 (with a long hiatus) but how I am after having 2 kids, letting go of unnecessary baggage and trauma that I just would not let enter my new chapters, and marriage…well…different needs, different wants.
I think there are going to be littles out there who do not need you a majority of the time because of whatever reasons. Hopefully healthy ones. However, I think because there is so much pressure to be a typical little that the whole thing just becomes insufferable. Some of us don’t age regress which is somehow a disqualification to a few. Which is fine and noted and my response to that is: stay away at that point lol. After having children, I refuse to age regress. I wasn’t into that before and it’s an even harder pass after being yelled at and hit all day and overstimulated by actual children. How am I going to “oh noes how you say pepino??” seriously to my husband? I just can’t lmao. I can’t be the other little who is a mom who says “heeeell no” to the idea of acting younger after a full day of dealing with actual children. They’re exhausting. Cute but exhausting lmao. So I think that’s another thing to keep in mind when maybe dealing with a little who is a mom and who goes into littlespace. Sometimes we don’t want age regression and that’s legit.