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Mossypixie's reply was so well thought out! Thank you for sharing. As a daddy, one thing I noticed some daddies dont get, is if and when little space is sexual. For some littles, its never sexual at all. For others it can be sexual, all the way to the point of ageplay, even if it is similtaneously a trauma response or coping mechanism. For an individual little, it could be sexual one time, and the complete farthest thing from sexual another time. Its a daddies job to understand why they are in little space, what kind of mood the little is in within that dynamic, and generally help them cope first. For a non-sexual little space, bringing up adult themes could just add to the stress that drove them to little space in the first place. If there is going to be a sexual dynamic in a ddlg relationship, little space is never the time to initially figure it out. It's something that needs to be figured out when the little is able to deal with those concepts, and then maybe integrated into the dynamic, on her terms.