evolmonkei

So I am new to the DDgl. I have been exploring and trying to figure things out. I had a daddy online over a year ago, but he was new to it too and was only into it for me. That relationship didn't last, and I got into a vanilla situationship afterwards. I was also going through some stuff with my roommate and didn't have a safe place to get into my little space. I have just started getting back into it and looking for a Daddy again. I thought I found a Daddy. I really like him a lot, and I felt things were going really well. We are still getting to know each other and feeling each other out, but I thought it was going really well. He told me he feels like I don't have any genuine interest in him because I never ask to see his art and projects he was working on. The thing is, I did ask him, and he told me he would send pics later, but then never did. Then I asked to see something else, and he cracked a joke that I need to buy it. I felt like his responses were indicating to me that he didn't want to share, so I stopped asking. Now he thinks I don't like him. Which is frustrating cuz I have stupidly let my littles get excited and have been really looking forward to building the relationship with him. I was sooo excited to have found a daddy that likes art and has his own creative projects. I thought that was fantastic, and I was really excited to share that with him. Since he thinks I have no interest in him, he has been pulling away, which really triggers my abandonment issues. I have my littles due to trauma, so small times when people bail feel enormous to me. I know he is doing this because of his own abandonment issues, but at the same time I feel like if I don't get some kind of consistency from him, I won't be able to move forward. And I know he can't be consistent with me if he doesn't feel wanted and desired. Am I being weird? I really do like him and want to give it a genuine try. Is this a bad sign? If not, what can I do to show him I really do care and like him a lot?