Hey there, darling, you can call me Ignitus.
I’m a 30 year old guy living in Portland, 5’7" and about 195lbs of comfortable dad bod, blue eyes, and long curly brown hair (and yup, it gets a bit crazy). Livin life sober, drug, and disease free (fully tested) ret Veteran and artist with way too many hobbies, like cooking, baking, gardening, painting, gaming, reading and I’m always down to ramble about them if you’ll listen. Politically I’m on the left, and as a Daddy, I firmly believe being a daddy is about keeping my girl safe, protected, and completely cherished above anything else.
I am looking for a capable girl with a huge personality, A total brat who loves to push my buttons, or a shy darling princess to test my rules, and throw a beautiful little tantrum just to see how securely Daddy holds the leash. I don’t believe in yelling that we are both adults that can communicate through words and actions, I may be a bit soft spoken, but I can be firm when necessary. I’d love to have someone else who is just as kinky as I am but also wants to breed. I want that fierce, Adam’s family style of romance where we are both just totally obsessed and stuck on each other. I would prefer a monogamous relationship, but I would be open to caring for multiple Littles/middles. Should it need be.
As for kinks breeding, bondage, shibari, toy use, d/s +. Basically there’s a lot that I like like my soft limits are like watersports, but I don’t do fecal matter or any other bodily fluid other than cum, and saliva. My harsh limits are I don’t do physical injuries strict extreme punishments your typical abuse style kinks no thank you.
When you cross my door, you are mine, to hold to care for, to punish(depending on the infraction). I would love to provide sweet, but patient care making sure you are fully looked after, bringing you a snack and a juice box and even and tucking you in for warm, a firm cuddles.
If you want a Daddy who is steady and reliable in daily life, but still has that wild, playful edge to completely capture your heart and keep you close, then I’m your daddy. Since I work from home, I love handling the home and routine, leaving you completely free to drop your walls, and just fully relax your mind when you're home with me.
Realistically, like I want you to have your own career or goals and dreams, but that you’re able to come home to me at the end of the day. While I may technically a homebody, I’m always in the community. Volunteering at the library or walking my dog, going thrifting and other shopping just getting out into our city in world. I would prefer someone local, I am open to helping you relocate if you’re not and we do long distance I would like that long distance to be a max of six months, especially if we hit it off hard. I’m all for video calls and voice chat and talking for hours while you’re working on something I’m working on something else.
My big dream is us on a quiet hobby farm surrounded by trees. I wanna see, you know, perhaps children in the future and build a family where we take care of each other every single step of the way. In the far future, I see us resting on our patio together, watching our kids laugh, giggle, and play in the fields of the orchard we grew, while you sit safely and sweetly in Daddy's lap.
I'd love to see what that cute little head of yours can dream up for our future darling.