caspar

I discovered the cgl world around 10 years ago, and it was just like a lightbulb moment where things just fit and made sense for me. For me personally it isnt a kink and just part of who I am and I guess a lifestyle choice by default. I have always been childish and regress by varying degrees depending on environmental factors, my mood, or whatever. Gender is a spectrum not a box. Some of the best people are those who don't fit into boxes. It's not worth conforming to society, I'd rather be myself, the real, weird, flawed, messy, quirky person who has no idea what they are doing most the time. Slowly I am accepting myself for who I am and not basing my happiness on whether I have achieved the standard checklist of what I am meant to have accomplished by now. In order for me to become who I want to be I need to nurture myself and allow myself time to grow in an environment safe for me. I would love to find people to surround myself with who can laugh, be silly, nerdy, accept each other flaws and all. I would love to have friends I can hang out with irl and enjoy life with. And I would love a relationship with someone who feels like my missing piece. To share cozy nights in, fun adventures out, shared interests and desires, travel and see the world. Stuff I enjoy: Anime, DND, gaming (recently gotten into disney dreamlight valley, and also love bg3 and cyberpunk), animals, going to the zoo or aquariums, photography, colouring with crayons, stuff like that.