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Hello little ones (and anyone else reading). 👋 I am a soft Daddy in search of a soft little girl to be my long term IRL partner. This would be a relationship so it is crucial to me that we click as everyday people, not just as Daddy Dom and little girl in the kink dynamic. Obviously such relationships don't spawn out of thin air and it will take time vetting and getting to know each other. Please note that even though I am looking for someone IRL, it does not necessarily mean living together. It could be COLA or some other arrangement that works for us. Please read on about me and the dynamic I am looking for. Reach out if you are interested. I don't bite without consent. Who Am I? I am just a guy, towering over a little girl, and asking her to call him Daddy.🤭 Jokes aside, I would describe myself as a down-to-earth, pragmatic, kind, compassionate guy. I don't smoke. I rarely drink alcohol. I don't do drugs. I am childfree. Overall I am what The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy would describe as Mostly Harmless. Okay that was another joke. Get used to it. As a Daddy there will jokes and sometimes they will be of the worst Dad variety: "I'm hungry." - "Hi Hungry, I'm Daddy." I love animals and nature. I am a cat dad. I know my way around a kitchen. I play all sorts of games including board games, role-playing games, video games, and puzzle games (Wordle, Connections, that kind of thing, although we can do jigsaw puzzles too!) I read books, mostly science fiction and fantasy. I watch shows and movies and sometimes anime. Some of my more quirky interests include urbanism and etymology. There is probably more but nothing that stands out to me as particularly extraordinary. Physically I am 189 cm tall with broad shoulders and a "dad" body type. I have short hair and a beard entering their salt-and-pepper stage, and I wear glasses. We can exchange photos early if you are worried about physical attraction. Kinky Me I'm a caregiver with a big heart who gets great joy from watching a sub flourish under my care. That is why DDlg and soft pet play (think fluffy ears and headpats, not leather masks and chain leashes) are perfect for me. I love the soft and cute esthetics (bows, pastels, stuffies). I love the gentle and SFW activities (forehead kisses, couch cuddles, bedtime routines). I love the trust, admiration and devotion from my sub. I love to be looked up to and leaned on for guidance and comfort. If all that makes me sound like a big softie then that is accurate but it is not everything that I am. I will have rules and expectations, as well as some discipline. I can be stern when needed but I wont raise my voice or yell at you. I wont get mad but you may disappoint me. I will punish mischief, misbehaviour, and forgetfulness with appropriate funishments. What do you get out of it? A safe environment to be your little self. Rules, rituals and structure to keep you grounded. Help, guidance, and support when you need it. Praise, care, affection, cute pet names, hand holding, and whatever else makes a little girl happy. That's all well and good but what about some sexy kinks? Here you go: Orgasm control. Having a needy sub who relies on me for her orgasms is pretty much essential. Light free use. My sub should be comfortable with being touched sexually as a show of affection. Light spanking/impact play. It almost goes without saying but skirt up, undies down, over Daddy's knee. Discipline. Proper honorifics and various scenes involving rules or inspection. Breeding and biting, especially if my sub likes to be an animal in bed (pet play). Whatever else we can agree on. I am open to exploring my sub's wants and needs. There are also some things that do not work for me at all. If these describe or are essential to you then we are not a match. ABDL. Brats. Cheeky fun and mischief are great but I am not a brat tamer. Service submission. I am not looking for a toy for my own pleasure. Performative submission. If your heart isn't in it then what is the point? "Hard" BDSM gear and wear such as chains, whips, leather, and latex are not for me but feel free to ask first. Here are some non-kink deal breakers: Children. Intolerance and bigotry. Smoking and hard drug use. ENM/Poly relations. I am monogamous. Dislike of animals or severe cat allergies. You aren't in Europe. The logistics of (too) long distance just don't work for me. That's all folks. As I said at the beginning, reach out if you are interested. Vetting is a process and sometimes it doesn't work out but that is okay. You cannot force compatibility.