Ryan

Hey DDLG Community! We're running our first giveaway and we'd love for you to be a part of it. The prize: A $50 US Amazon gift card How to enter: Post at least 3 times anywhere on the forum during the month of May. It's that simple! Each post just needs to be in a separate thread — 3 replies in the same topic won't count. We also reserve the right to disqualify posts that are removed for spam, low quality, or rule violations, so just be your normal wonderful selves. 💕 The fine print: One entry per person Posts must be made before May 31st at 11:59pm EST Winner will be selected randomly from all qualifying members We'll send you a PM if you win — you'll have 48 hours to respond and claim your prize. If we don't hear back, we'll draw a new winner. We still have the second half of May ahead of us, so there's plenty of time to get your posts in. Jump into a discussion, introduce yourself, ask a question, or check out our brand new Advice & Support forum — every post counts! Good luck everyone! 🍀 — The DDLG Community Team

To guide to help you link your KinkPerf list to DDLG Community, can be found here! 🙂

Hi everyone, Here is a quick guide for adding your KinkPerf list to your DDLG Community profile. This is completely optional. Only add or sync your KinkPerf link if you want it visible from your DDLG Community profile. Automatic option: sign in with DDLG Community 1. Go to KinkPerf: KinkPerf 2. Choose Sign in with DDLGCommunity. 3. Create or open your KinkPerf list. 4. Fill out your list and save it. 5. Use Sync to DDLGCommunity. 6. Visit your DDLG Community profile and look for the KinkPerf section. It should show a link that says View my KinkPerf.com kinklist! Manual option: paste your list URL 1. Open your saved KinkPerf list. 2. Copy the public KinkPerf URL. 3. On DDLG Community, go to your profile and choose Edit Profile. 4. Find the KinkPerf section. 5. Paste the URL into KinkPerf List. 6. Save your profile. A few privacy notes KinkPerf links are unlisted, not publicly searchable, but anyone with the link can view the list. If you sync or paste your KinkPerf URL into your DDLG Community profile, people who can view your profile may be able to open that link. Anonymous saved lists are permanent and read-only. If you want to edit or manage your list later, create or sign into a KinkPerf account before saving it. KinkPerf is a conversation tool, not a consent contract or safety guarantee. If you run into trouble, reply here or contact [email protected].

Hi everyone, The DDLG Community team is excited to introduce KinkPerf, a private kinklist builder made for clearer, more intentional sharing. KinkPerf lets you create a list, rate interests with simple labels, save an unlisted link, compare compatibility, and share your list when you choose. We also built a deeper integration with DDLG Community. You can sign in to KinkPerf using your DDLG Community account, fill out your list, and optionally sync your KinkPerf link directly to your DDLG Community profile. That profile sync is completely optional. If you choose to sync it, your DDLG Community profile will show a link to your KinkPerf list. If you do not want it on your profile, you can still use KinkPerf privately or share your unlisted link only with people you choose. You can check it out here: KinkPerf We will also post a quick guide showing how to link your KinkPerf list to your DDLG Community profile. Thanks for being part of DDLG Community. We are excited to keep building tools that make this space more useful, more intentional, and easier to navigate.

Hey everyone, I wanted to share something I’ve been building. I recently launched a new app called TiedUp: TiedUp TiedUp is a privacy-first rule tracker built for kink, D/s, and structured dynamics. The main idea behind it was pretty simple: a lot of people in this space end up trying to manage rules, routines, rituals, accountability, and reflection using a mix of notes apps, reminders, spreadsheets, or generic habit trackers. Those tools can work to a point, but they usually are not really built for this kind of use. I wanted to make something that feels more fitting and more intentional. Something that can handle personal structure, shared accountability, journaling, and context without feeling awkward, overly clinical, or too exposed to use in everyday life. TiedUp is designed to be useful if you want to: Keep personal rules or routines private, Track rituals, protocols, or expectations more clearly, Add notes, mood, and reflection alongside completion, Handle accountability in a way that feels more grounded, Use it solo or as part of a shared dynamic Privacy was a big part of the idea from the beginning, so I tried to make it feel discreet, calm, and practical rather than loud or generic. I also want to mention that this community is not going anywhere. If anything, you will probably see more activity from me, not less. TiedUp and the forum are under the same roof, and support for TiedUp helps subsidize the cost of running this community as well. So if people do end up supporting the app, that also helps me keep investing in this space overall. If that sounds relevant to you, feel free to check it out here: TiedUp Also, if you already have an account here on the community site, keep an eye on your email tomorrow. I’m planning to send out a note that will include a signup discount for community members. If anyone does take a look, I’d genuinely love feedback. What feels useful, what feels confusing, what feels missing, all of that is helpful. This is just v1, there will be many iterations of this app, further expanding it's functionality, for you, and this community I'm happy to say I'm a part of. Thanks, everyone, for reading 🙂

Hi Everyone, Thanks for the feedback here. The current version of the forum software doesn't support users self-deleting their accounts; it requires admin approval. That being said we've just processed all the deletion requests in our queue. I've noticed this feedback down, though, so if we can find a way to make this more of a user-specific action, I'd love to make that happen! 🙂

Hi All, Sorry for the delay here. Life got too busy for a while, but I'm back. Currently, the ddlgdating.net site isn't working, but we're planning on relaunching it within the next few months here!

For feature requests, the process is super simple! Explain the feature: Why you want this feature implemented: And that's it!

Hi everyone! Should you ever encounter a bug, please share it with us! If we don't know the bug is happening, its very difficult to troubleshoot! It would be amazing if you could submit as much of the following information as possible when filing a report: Browser: Operating System: Page you were on: VPN?: Screenshots (if applicable): Screenshot of Console (hit f12 in most desktop browsers, and click the tab "Console"): If you prefer, you can also DM your bug reports to me or send them to our support team at [email protected]

Welcome everyone to our new community! We are so excited you are here! Please do take a look around, click things, type things, and have a great time! We're always looking for feedback, so please do let us know if you have any! And make sure to share this site around in your communities to get the word out! Should you need support for anything, feel free to reach out to us: [email protected] If you are looking for a more dating-centric site, consider using our other website, ddlgdating.net See you around, DDLGNetworks Team