40F middle looking for Daddy

[Naturegirl]

Hi!

I'm more attracted to personality than looks or any other stuff, so I'll tell you about me and then you could tell me about you, if you're interested?  Deal :)

I'm 40 in real years but maybe about 12 mentally.  I was always kinda smart, mature in some ways but immature for my age.  I'm neurodivergent and have a chronic illness (can tell you more), I put on weight because of this, which I'm not happy about and want to change, and besides that I'm burned out and trying to heal.  I'm very loyal and monogamous (except for naughty fantasies haha).  I'm only looking for a long term relationship.  I'm also demi-sexual, so really I need to be friends before we could date or be in a relationship.  I'm in the UK but would also be good with online, if you think we'd click.

I'm silly and kind of immature a lot of the time if the energy is right.  People are sometimes surprised but I am actually very shy and not that confident in a lot of ways, I need to feel safe and I think that having a loving Daddy will help me with that even more than a vanilla partner or friends.  I like to text chat about all sorts of things and to learn and be interested.  I love structure, rules, tasks, rewards/punishments etc.  I struggle with organisation and being responsible, honestly :/  I feel like I'm a bit like a cat, where I can be prickly but with special people I love affection soo much.  I need to love Daddy before I want to please him and make him happy, because that's why I want to do it.

[DominicanDaddy]

Hi Naturegirl,

 

Your line about being 40 in real years but 12 mentally made me laugh because it felt very honest and very human.

What stood out to me most wasn’t the DDLG side of your post though. It was the way you described yourself as loyal, shy, a little prickly at times, and trying to heal from burnout while still wanting to learn, connect, and find your person. That takes a lot of courage to put out there.

 

For what it’s worth, I’m someone who believes the strongest relationships start with friendship, trust, and genuinely enjoying each other’s company. So the fact that you’re demi and want to build a connection first actually makes a lot of sense to me.

 

You compared yourself to a cat, which leaves me curious: what’s the quickest way to earn the trust of a Nature Girl cat? 😄

 

I’d love to get to know you if you’re interested.