32M Looking for Diapered Little to love and cherish #PA #MD #Online to IRL

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I’m someone who values structure, consistency, and care. I’ve been in the community for 14 years and while I deeply believe that the title of “Daddy” is something that needs to be earned that is ultimately what I would like to do. I don’t mean in a performative or aesthetic-only way either. I’m looking for a relationship where DDLG is a core part of the connection, not just a “vibe” or a way to get attention. That means showing up with intention, emotional availability, and mutual respect. I also need to be very clear on the fact that if your headspace is fluctuating or you're still figuring things out, we won't mesh well. I've had too many bad experiences with people who used these things to try to push boundaries or pretend to want one thing when they really wanted something else. I'm looking for a balance of SFW and NSFW, and I'm not someone who mixes caregiving and regression with a NSFW space.

 

 

I'm interested in building something real, with specific dynamics and emotional layers that I’m only comfortable exploring with a cis woman. That’s a personal boundary, not a judgment on anyone else's identity or worth as a person.

 

I lead gently but firmly. My dynamic style is about support, not control. I’m fully capable of being firm and enforcing rules when needed, but my main goal is to create structure that helps you thrive, not arbitrary rules. Diapers are an integral part of the dynamic for me as well, I feel that's important to mention.

 

 

What I’m NOT looking for:

 

 

· People still “testing the waters” of this lifestyle without the emotional readiness to be consistent. *his especially includes communication. I'm not going to chase someone for crumbs of their attention. If you’re genuinely interested, being left on read or disappearing for 12+ hours without a heads-up isn’t acceptable. I understand life gets busy and we all have obligations that need our attention like work, family, or academics.

 

However, ghosting, flakiness, or passivity are hard no’s. Anyone who’s been in this community for longer than a week or two knows exactly what I’m talking about. If you can’t put in even basic effort to talk regularly, this won’t work. If you say you want to call or be read a story, I will absolutely show up for that, and I expect the same from you—a heads-up that you can’t make it is just a basic courtesy that is also expected as the time we invest in getting to know each other matters and deserves respect from both sides.

 

· People who expect gifts, attention, or structure without offering honesty, presence, and energy in return.

 

· Anyone whose living situation makes privacy, autonomy, or emotional independence unrealistic. Living with others isn’t an issue if you're in a place to build something authentic, including video calls. I'm not trying to be a jerk, I’ve just run into too many people pretending to be something they’re not.

 

· Smokers, heavy drinkers, or drug users. I live clean and I want my partner to as well.

 

· Parents or those wanting children. I'm childfree (vasectomy included), and I want my partner to be a central part of my life—not one priority among many.

 

 

But this isn’t just about rules—I want to take you on dates. Laugh with you. Share a life built on trust, tenderness, and a little tension. I want something where we both feel held—something where we can nerd out over Star Wars or Siege, go for a walk, or relax over dinner… and still know exactly who we are to each other when life gets messy or demanding.

 

 

If you're chasing a dream job, working on a degree, or just deeply into your favorite hobby, I want to cheer you on and support you as you pursue your goals. If you’re self-aware, emotionally available, and looking for a genuine DDLG relationship that's full of love and support, let’s talk! Feel free to send me a message if you're interested!