42yo NB Daddy, new to community but not new to DDLG (polyamorous/ENM) in western New England

[DeadStarsStillBurn]

Hey all! Tall 42yo non-binary Daddy Dom here. You can call me Daithi for now. Please no honorifics unless we're in a relationship with dynamics that have been discussed.

I'm just (May 2025) coming out of a 2.5 year relationship with a Little who ended up deciding that she couldn't see a long-term future with me because I have another partner.

Pretty disappointing, but hope springs eternal. So I'm trying to make community, get to know people, be friendly, and just see what happens over the next months/years. Who knows, right?

I'm goth, I like going to the gym, stomping around at goth nights, watching movies, cuddling. I'm a sweetie honestly. I may wear scary goth gear and listen to strung out music but I'm a squishy emotionally intelligent bright mind and I love to cuddle and pamper a babygirl.

Not super into ABDL (though every once in a while I see someone rock a diaper with JUST the right color palette and I'm like brain go brrrrr >_____> ) and don't really like performative little voice with intentional misspellings and all that (no hate if that's what you're into, just probably not compatible as partners).

I'm a professional working a full time job in healthcare and doing side work for a 1099 as well. I have a home, good benefits, and I take care of the people in my life. I'm not RICH rich, but I am in the middle class. 

I'm vegan, Communist/Socialist, and really don't have a single damn to give about people who are right wing or cops. I'm sex-positive and would like any potential partner to be too (no hate for ace people, just I'm QUITE sexual and currently have zero sex partners so I'mma crawl outta my damn skin LOL).

I dunno, this is a forum and I live in a small enough corner of the world that I'm hella unlikely to meet someone here who is actually near me, so I guess for the most part we just gonna chop it up here conversationally and that's fine. Talk to me about whatever, I don't hold too many secrets. My autistic hyperfixation is on politics and social justice though, so if you wanna get me talking that's always a good place to start, I'll try to remember to pause to give you opportunities to chat back lol