23 F4M 23-33

[BearyBaby]

Hello 🤗
I'm a 23 year old woman who lives in NE Pennsylvania.

I'm not looking for someone who just wants to jump into a physical relationship. (Even virtually)

I will say something very important:
⚠️I am chronically ill w/ multiple sclerosis ⚠️

I am currently in some of the worst pain and fatigue I've ever been in.

I am supposed to start medication (injections I give myself once a month) that- if they work, I will have to take for the rest of my life/until they stop working/until they find a cure for MS. Whatever comes first.

I am not looking for conditional love. If you only want me when I'm at my healthiest, I don't want you.

my MS is not the only part of who I am.

I am happy to answer ANY questions you might have.

That being said- here are some things about me!

Little me 🧸🐇🐑:
Age: 2-4 depending on the day and situation
Favorite food: chicken tenders
Favorite color: soft pink/purple
Favorite stuffie: my lamby (he's a boy! 🙄)
Use little gear? Yes 🙂‍↕️ (Abdl is a big ole❓, not something I think I'd use but I'm inexperienced with some parts of this lifestyle and I'm not sure what I'd like! Maybe I'd be surprised. I'm open to a lot of new things!)

Big me:
23 (duh 😂)

I love steak, broccoli, and anything fun I can learn to cook (when I'm able to)

I love both lolita and goth style, lavender, baby pink, and black would probably be my top faves

I watch a lot of Doctor who, Hello kitty (different shows), criminal minds, so many others.

I love to craft and make things with my hands! It's so fun!

I also have a cat! Her name is Gwen (after spiderman's girlfriend).

I usually love to go out and be social. Lately I don't have much strength for it. But that should be changing soon! (I'm so hopeful 😭)

I don't really drink much, but when I do I'm quite fun! (And usually very good at knowing my limit!) 🍻🍹🍷🍸

I do smoke the good green, mostly for pain- but occasionally for fun. No issue if you don't, but I won't stop managing my pain bc you don't like it 🤷🏼‍♀️😀

I currently vape but am in the process of quitting (MS is an autoimmune disease. Stopping too quicky could send me into a flair up, my Dr recommended not quitting cold turkey. I listen to my doctor)

I am in the process of losing weight,
I'm 5'2 -
Currently 194.1 lbs. 💪🏻
Highest weight was 236.7 lbs 🥪
My goal weight is 140-160lbs (depending on how I feel in my skin as I meet those weights)
I do not intend on being a size 2.
I just want to feel better about myself.
And be healthier.
I am not going to be a super skinny girl, probably ever. And I'm okay with that!
I have a true hourglass figure, big on the top and bottom 😉
But I do have a tummy too

I am not an avid video game player
I do enjoy Minecraft, Stardew, hello kitty island adventure, and similar games tho.
Simulator games are fun!

My ideal partner includes:

Wants a stay at home - I want to cook, clean, and worry about the house stress. Take your shoes off every day when you get home to a clean house and a yummy meal.

Wants a kid or kids (in the future. Probably 5-7 years from now)

is someone who also cares about their health. You don't need to have a 6 pack but I appreciate people who don't only eat junk then complain about how they look.

understands that while I'll cook, clean, pack lunches, and clean underwear, I won't take out the trash or do the lawn work 😂 (unless I want to do a project of some specific type 😂)

wants to provide for me and our future.

is respectful and kind

is romantic and funny

can be goofy and silly but understands when to draw the line

encourages my projects and crafts

wants to be a husband and father

is 30 or younger

doesn't need to make a lot of money, just enough to keep us safe

If you aren't interested after reading this, have a good day! And thanks 😊
If you are, lmk!
I'd love to hear from all you lovely people 🫶🏻

[Joeybear]

Omg youre cute