From a Daddy's perspective. If he's committed to the relationship, then he can and will find the time to message you!!! I'm an older Daddy, late to the scene after having gotten married, have children, and also working... yet i could always find the time to message my littles, find time to spend at least a little time with them every day! I find it perplexing that a Daddy would leave his little one hanging for days, unless something was very wrong! (I have done that, but only because I was post surgery and in pain, sleeping lots, and my little one was aware of it) Otherwise, contact should be constant! There is no such thing as being too needy! You're a little! You're supposed to be needy and clingy and want lots of your Daddy's attention! 🙂 I hope things work out for you, but don't get discouraged if things don't! There is the right Daddy and/or little out there for everyone... you just have to be patient and keep looking till you find them! <hugs!!!>