I wish I had an answer for not going crazy to use for myself 😅 I asked for a serious sit down and explained how I felt and it helped for me. I would suggest the same. Maybe ask for a specific time to have a serious talk. (Our dynamic might be very different from yours because once in a while, I am allowed almost a “get out of jail free card”where I can step out of our dynamic and be like “hey you’re slacking”