Someone you don't have to question what their objective is daily. You don't have to worry if they are right. Where you feel respected, cared for and appreciated the way you are. Not one that says if only you were this or that. One that asks what's on your mind and doesn't gloss over when you are breaking. Someone who has been there...not in the exact same situation but can still understand. One that makes you feel like you are not okay for now or a place holder until they find something else that you know you are enough and not too much. Not giving any reason to doubt them.
However, you need to give them the same feelings; The same understanding. Being the only one on that side, the only one trying is too much to ask of anyone. Supportive when they need it most sure but also when they don't. Sorry having a hard day today.